What did this girl try to say?

[Anonymous]

i was talking to a girl i dont know well and she put her hand on my stomach and got really close. I got nervous (i like her) and leaned away and she noticed that, so she put her hand again my stomach. A bit later she said “you are disciplined.”

what does that mean?

[Rosexøxø]

Lol could be similar to the hand placement guys have with women's backs: the too high. Too low.

If she placed her hand on your chest or below, it would've been too risky for her. Maybe she placed it on your stomach, waiting for you to grab her, or see if you would get a boner from the hand so close to either region?

Next time touch her stomach if she does this and see, how she responds

OR

Touch her stomach and say: "I can be a little rebellious sometimes.."

lmfao and update us as well.

What is she saying? She's certainly testing you. Unsure if she wants a sexual moment/relationship/ or to date you

[Asker]

She placed her hand right about where my belly button is, maybe just a teeny tiny bit lower.

I dont have the guts to touch her back tbh.

What is she testing me for by the way?

There was also something that has happened a day ago before this touching stuff. She noticed that i get nervous.

Her: “why do you get so nervous?”

Me: “i dont know” (i had no idea what to say)

Her: “you dont know? Do you feel nervousness around girls? Have you never talked? Dont you have a girlfriend?”

Me: “no”

She has asked me the nervous question 3 times now over different days. But i dont know why she does that. I think she knows. Another thing that happened is that we were walking towards each other down the hall and she started to stare me down when we were about to pass. i was looking down but could tell she was looking at me, so i looked up, and then down again because i couldnt look at her. When she passed me i overheard her saying to her friend “hes blushing”.

[Rosexøxø]

hmmm. this is a bunch of drama.

If you're a girl and a guy has done this. End the friendship- hang out with trusted friends, carry pepper spray at the very least.

If you're a guy who doesn't want sexual interaction, raise your voice at her once saying- bitch I don't like you. Now fuck off before I get mad or have to call someone to come get your immature horny ass.

If you're a guy who wants a sexual moment from her- you'll get it quick by just letting her initiate it. She seems to be attracted to your shyness. Don't be so shy about it.

Summary: if it's not what you want- vocalize it- get a guy friend to distract her; bang her, to leave you alone. If it's what you want act shy, but don't be shy to the point where she's abusive. Man up king.

That individual is making advances.

[Asker]

I do like her but i want a genuine relationship, not sexual.

And are you sure she is making advances? I just assumed she was being friendly. I asked my sis too and she told me she gave me hints by touching my belly. I asked her what kind of hint and she said “The other type of hint”.

[Rosexøxø]

Good thing you have a sister. This girl seems sexual. She could try a kiss without you asking or caring how you feel about her. I think she's has had some issues to be this sexual this young. Can say to her:

hey, date me. I want to kiss and hold you, but I want to be the only guy who gets to do it.
Yes or no.

See what she says- don't let her respond with "I have to think about it."

You'd have to be firm that one time to avoid any heartache or misunderstandings, then you can be soft with her and try building up to things sexually and try to care for each other.

If she says no hallelujah she was forward and as always my good man, move on.

You're a guy though. You're young. We learn by trial- and error. I guess you can try dating her and see where it leads.

[Asker]

Hmm i see. It’s just that it’s hard to talk to her because i get nervous.

She’s 21 and i am 24. I dont have any confidence and always assume a girl is just being friendly even if she is interested.

You said she is doing sexual stuff, and i thinn to myself “no way she is physically attracted to me