I have confidence issues and insecurities and whenever i like a girl i assume that she probably thinks that she is better than me in all departments of dating., so i dont even try to talk to her.
i dont do this thinking that girls are narcissists, rather i think that because I’m negative.
now my question is if the way i think is true. Is it?
No. If anything it's the opposite. But they still want really attractive guys to make up for what they perceive as THIER slothfulness. They think if they're with a really attractive guys it legitimizes them. So unless you're really attractive or can convince them that you are with your self confidence they're still likely to reject you.
My advice to you is stop worrying about it man most young women have terrible judgement. And thier rejection shouldn't mean anything as it's not based in any logic anyhow. 🤣
Just be the best you and know what YOU want. And don't settle for less.
can't really blame them on looks though. the most attractive girls far outclass the most attractive guys. as far as everything else that isn't subjective, there needs to be solid proof of such
Fully straight women do not consider themselves better looking then the men that try to date them and being beautiful does not make you better then anybody else. In fact using your beauty to get short cuts in life might make you lower in social value then somebody who is ugly and hard working. If you look at medical professors at some elite schools, most of them are very ugly but they are high status and intelligent.
I have many of the same feelings as you. I have insecurities and doubt about myself. I don't see myself as someone attractive enough to get in contact with guys by myself.
I'm always doubting whether the guy can be interested in or attracted to me.
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s Not really. I don’t think my dating experience, physical looks or any of that is better than anyone elses. We’re all different on what we define as attractive and/or what we define as good dating experience.
I don't
nope
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