What is it with Women loving to marry and divorce?

[Anonymous]

People are like they divorce for fun or something and women are usually the one's pushing for marriage.

[ManOnFire]

I think it probably comes from a general unhappiness from their inner emptiness, or because they regret marrying that guy. But why do they regret it? I think it's because a lot of women meet a man and are thrilled with him initially, and they think this is what the definition of real love and a relationship is about, but then the dust settles and they start seeing that it isn't the guy they really want anymore. They didn't do enough vetting in their thrilled phase, didn't do enough learning about the guy, and probably forgave a lot of things they didn't like about him deep down but the honeymoon phase was still blinding them.

I think it's also because women are so desperate to be loved and want so badly to feel proud of being in a relationship that they jump into a marriage and then lose that thrill later on. But ultimately there must be some kind of inner lack that generates discontent for so many women to call it quits like they do. Is it really always that the guy is not a good guy? Or is it because so many women are so empty inside and don't know how to be happy with themselves, so when you're not happy with yourself you aren't going to be happy with anyone else.

[art84]

My brother's ex wife asked for divorce papers a few months ago. He was with her for about 2 years before my mom literally told him to marry his girlfriend. They were married for 5 years and had another little girl along with his son's from a previous girlfriend. I think what's interesting is his wife was like 19 years old when they met so 24 years when they split. My brother was in his 30's and would always fight about money as he worked and his wife didn't. He would pay to the rent and groceries and she would do nothing literally. Really sad as both girls seem to change from happy to wanting to distance themselves from my mom and dad and me. I knew it would happen as my brother stopped going to church and never raised his children in believing in God. I just hope my brother doesn't get back together with his ex and he just moves on. Let her live her life as she wants with no responsibility for her daughters. My nieces deserve better.

[LazerBean]

Same reason men tend to resent marriage to begin with, which is damayfrom their promiscuity.

https://ifstudies. org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happiness

[LazerBean]

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[alice55]

I think it’s cause their parents / grands-parents didn't divorce but wished they did so their only advice to their child is to divorce

[FilmGuy93]

Women really suck at identifying good men, and they know divorce is profitable.

[Smashingdoozy]

Most common reasons for divorce:

lack of commitment (75%), infidelity (59.6%), too much conflict (57.7%), getting married too young (45.1%), financial problems (36.7%), substance abuse (34.6%), domestic violence (23.5%), health problems (18.2%), lack of support from family (17.3%), religious differences (13.3%), little or no premarital education (13.3).

[BJP21]

Ill say this, they didn't date long enough. The longer you date the better. I found that to be true after of 10 years realizing how mentally and emotionally abusive the girl I was with was, and thank God I didn't marry her and have kids with her.

[Anonymous]

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[AviatorTom]

Statistically, women make out much better in divorce than men.

Why is this on the main page? It's over a year old!!!

[UniquelyBasic]

Maybe women aren't the best at venting certain men who are good for marriage and men could do better in relationships.

[Berethor]

That's how women are stealing men's money, I don't trust divorced women.

[LiamJHayden]

Relationships that are based on emotion rather than commitment are generally doomed from the outset.

[DtMe89]

Are you saying they shouldn't be able to divorce?

[YHL6965]

It's a very lucrative business for women, and, also, mental instability.

[Crazzyyworld]

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