There is a saying that behind every successful man, there is a woman who quietly supports him. So the question is, what should this woman do?

[linda890507]

[USLegionary]

Usually this woman is with him because of his success or has invested in his potential. Its like Jackie Kennedy Onnassis she had quite a number of would be suitors before she married JFK, was engaged I think to at least one who she dumped because though wealthy was not wealthy enough and was only an artist. She rejected multiple proposals from guys who weren't wealthy enough and basically nobodies. JFK was actually sleeping with Jackie and her sisters. Jackie was a golddigger and had as many affairs as JFK, as well as taking a lot of drugs.

[linda890507]

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[ArtemisSilver]

Ease his burdens, keep his home and children and be smart enough to advise him, because often there is nobody else to he can really trust.

The higher a man goes the more alone he is, all eyes looking on him, some with respect,. but some with rage and envy.

A woman should perfect her body,. and mind and be able to fight. Because when the man is away is the time that cowards will strike and the children must be defended.

A woman should be wise, because she is her child's first and most important teacher.

Be a shield maiden not a princess.

[linda890507]

thanks

[ArtemisSilver]

You're welcome

[Jamie05rhs]

Just be there. Be there whenever he needs someone to talk to. Be there whenever he needs someone to lean on. Be there whenever he needs someone to hang out with. Be there whenever he needs someone to kiss and cuddle. Be there whenever he has doubts or fears or anxiety. Support him. Encourage him. Listen to his goals and dreams. Lift him up. Tell him he's smart. Tell him he's good. Tell him he's handsome. Tell him you love him. Tell him you want him. Be his woman. Be dependable. Be trustworthy. Be loyal. And be intimate.

[linda890507]

thanks

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome! :)

[Summeroflove]

I think a supportive woman. Definitely can help a man go a long ways. I don’t know about every man. But this definitely helps.

Good women are powerful and amazing. A bad one will only drag you down.


The same as a woman I could say. I would say a good man could also push a woman far too

[linda890507]

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[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome

[AviatorTom]

You answered your own question. She should "quietly support him." Stay in the background, keep encouraging him in what he does, and so things for him so that he doesn't have to... he can concentrate on other things.

[linda890507]

What I want to know is whether I should give up my current career and go home and take charge of my family and stop earning through my own abilities.

[fonduegirl]

It depends on the guy. Some guys like being the sole bread winner. While some others appreciate the side income earned by their female counterparts, as long as children aren't totally neglected. Few guys also don't want kids.

[linda890507]

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[Grond21]

It's not that she quietly supports him, it's that she supports him. That's the key. Support him

[linda890507]

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[Grond21]

I know that's a simplistic answer, but does it make sense?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Encourage him to be successful

[Danny_dan92]

It goes both ways. The man and woman need to both support and motivate each other

[SlothySlob]

Effectively you groom him into a successful man.

[Wise4myage]

I thin their is a lot of truth in that.

[Alex8736]

be by his side