Shy/athletic/gamer guys, I need your help?

[Anonymous]

So coming from guys that pretty much keep to themselves, are involved with sports, and sit down to play some CoD, what do you look for in a girl? A little more outgoing? A bit of a gamer like you? Or what? Thanks

[MrEM4N]

I always thought I was special but know you're telling me there are other athletic gamers who keep mostly to themselves? That just blows my mind.

I like my girls to be feminine. I'm also very competitive when it comes to CoD. I'd rather just enjoy it by myself so I can trash talk and fist pump and then spend separate time with you. You're under 18 so I'm guessing the guy is as well so chances are he doesn't really know what he wants in a girl either. Your best bet is just make sure you're having fun with whatever you're doing and be open minded to new experiences. I'm always more attracted to girls who please them selves than ones who are more concerned with trying to please me. I want to laugh with you, not for you.

[Asker]

Haha, yeah, there's more than one of you! But thanks, that was really good/ well worded advice, thanks!

[Musical546]

Doesnt have to be a gamer, but has to bear with me there. has to know at least a little bit about sports.

as for the shy part, the girl should also be kinda shy, but not totally so. doesn't talk too much/but not too little. uhhuh. and then the typical pretty, goodlooking stuff.

so yeah

[Asker]

Is it considered attractive if we start a conversation with you, and be that kind of friendly? Or?

[Musical546]

haha. I would love for a girl to just ask me out. yep. don't be afraid to take the dominant role in the relationship lol.

[Asker]

I'm shy too, so I'm really stepping out of my comfort zone here. I went to his tennis match today (which wasn't completely weird because my two best friends are on the team with him) and managed to say hi, how did he do, sit with him and his friends and added to the conversation here and there, and offered him a ride home since he didn't have one (of which he turned down, but said thanks). I'm just don't want to like freak him out or anything. Your opinion?

[Musical546]

dont worry. that's not freaky at all. its exactly what you're supposed to do . if you're on the shy side, slowly ease into it, little goal, little achievements- and you will overcome the shyness. ha ha good luck =P

[Asker]

Thanks :) I texted him out of panic and apologized, I don't know if that was the right thing to do :/

[Musical546]

lol. why do you feel the need to apologize? youve done nothing wrong. lol.

[Asker]

I don't know, like I said, I panicked.

[Musical546]

haha. just calm down and relax. get to know him little by little, and I'm sure he'll fall for you =P

[Asker]

Thanks :)

[chyell]

I know you're mainly looking for a gamer guys point of view. But as a gamer girl, I'd like you to know, that it really doesn't make a difference whether you're a gamer girl or not. Just because a guy plays CoD doesn't mean he's like every other gamer dude. Every gamer is pretty different, he might like outgoing girls more, or girls who are more intellectual or someone who is downright rebellious. Only way to know is to be yourself, and be awesome! If he doesn't like you just the way you are, why even waste your time? Sure being a gamer girl will attract him maybe, but it's the personality that counts. Just because I'm a gamer doesn't mean I'm going to fall for just any guy who likes the same games as me.

[Asker]

Couldn't have put it any better :) yeah gaming is just one of my little hobbies

[arashmenalagha]

this sounds just like me except no shy part, and the gamer inside me is dying unless I find a really good game that story gets me hard.

I look for a girl that loves to play VIDEO games

is affectionate, sorta cute (not too much)

likes to spend time when I ask her to sometimes like 50% of the time.

thats it.

[sinful1620]

Me and every gamer guy I've ever known wants girls to be really introverted. We hate the party scene crap, so we don't want a girlfriend that'll drag us there, or go by herself and be all pissy we didn't go with her and cheat on us.

[Asker]

Yeah, I'm not super outgoing and I'm actually pretty shy myself, not into the party scene either. Thanks!

[Anonymous]

I'm not shy nor do I keep to myself, but I do play video games. It's nice when a girl likes to play them with you from time to time rather than complain to you "why are you wasting time playing video games".

[Snar87]

A male gamer loves when his girlfriend is also into games. Cell phone games, wii sports, and the Tetris knock-offs online doesn't count.

[Wassup]

I don't game it that much. I'd want a girl who is adventurous and loves going outside