Girls, Why is she not herself towards me?

[andre-48]

She acts all social with other people but with me she kinda acts very quiet with me 😔

[Izzy_3991]

Hmmm 🤔
She may feel awkward around you because she may not know what to say or may not have common interests with you.

[andre-48]

It's just solely me she is like this towards me 😔 when I was talking to her I could tell her pupils were dialated

[Izzy_3991]

She may like you

[andre-48]

It's just weird cause she will start a very small conversation with me. She did it last night she started a small conversation with me when she observed something going on in the room.

[Izzy_3991]

Sounds like she’s shy and unsure how to approach you.

[andre-48]

There is definitely something there cause there is a random sense of awkwardness. Then just as we're alone suddenly there is a moment we want to say something to each other. It's obvious that she is treating me differently towards other guys/girls. It makes me start thinking she doesn't like me 😔

[Izzy_3991]

She likes you. Shoot your shot. See how it goes 😄

[andre-48]

Cause she has literally no reason to dislike me. It just makes me upset that she treats me differently in comparison to everyone else. It's like she semi avoids me and then I end up ignoring her. So then she and I have this random awkwardness between us

[andre-48]

She seems more confident and talks more with other people including guys. But with me she behaves very brief with me for no apparent reason. What messes with my head is she'll start a conversation with me, we start chatting then next thing she is acting strange towards me. I really like her I feel we're both ignoring each other, it seems to just take a while for one of us to break the ice everytime

[andre-48]

On facebook after a week later when I did not reply to her message she somehow accidentally sent me a thumbs up in a chat at 6:45am

[Izzy_3991]

I would go for it. Ask her out for coffee or something. See how she responds.

[andre-48]

What would explain her weird behaviour of treating me differently as oppose to other guys

[Izzy_3991]

A. She likes you. B. She doesn't like you.

[andre-48]

What do you reckon it's most likely

[Izzy_3991]

Not sure. You won't know until you ask her directly 😃

[tonamimargaux]

She in love or in some amount of attraction towards you.

[andre-48]

On love with me?

[andre-48]

In**

[andre-48]

She seems more confident and talks more with other people including guys. But with me she behaves very brief with me for no apparent reason. What messes with my head is she'll start a conversation with me, we start chatting then next thing she is acting strange towards me. I really like her I feel we're both ignoring each other, it seems to just take a while for one of us to break the ice everytime

[tonamimargaux]

Go ahead ask her directly coz this happens to me too. I usually act weird and shy around a guy I like. I think it’s more of a women thing.

[andre-48]

You reckon it's just because she likes me. Do women do this even if the guy and girl have spoken a few times before. I've spoken to before and now she just seems quiet towards me

[tonamimargaux]

Yeah I can tell she likes you

[andre-48]

She will make some small talk with me. She did it the other day after we had our silence. Then she broke the ice and started a conversation with me about something she saw

[tonamimargaux]

I know this can be really confusing at times. It would be better to come clean with her one on one YK. I hope she comes clean rather than going places like that because I suffered a lot that way hope you don’t. Ask her and get yourself clear at-least you won’t be stuck that way.

[andre-48]

I know, it's just not helping my confidence cause then I start thinking she hates me 😭

[andre-48]

What did you mean you can tell she likes me?