My girlfriend wearing a thong bikini in thermal spa?

[Anonymous]

so we are going to romania and my girlfriend bought some new bikini and told me it is a surprice! i have found it and they were all tiny thong bikinis ! we are going to the thermal spa there that is public and full of people ! i dont know i think everybody will stare at her ass

[SteveSmith1985]

Yea... I totally understand where you're coming from. Totally.

I think your best bet is to be honest with her. Tell her you found her surprise, and explain to her nicely (but clearly and without bullshitting) how it makes you feel. Explain how 'you see it'.

The thing is, she genuinely is doing this FOR YOU. Because she thinks it's going to turn you on, and that it's something you're going to enjoy her putting on. Since that's actually very different from how it will REALLY make you feel... I think speaking-up about it before your trip is the only way to go. For both of your sakes.

I'm not sure how she'll take the 'news'. That very much depends on the girl. She may be offended, and if she is, hopefully she'll get-over-it with a little time. You have every right to prefer your girlfriend not wear a thong bikini in public. I mean, if she insists, that's certainly her 'right'.

But there's nothing wrong with feeling the way you feel about it. Even if she doesn't see it the same way, she should be able to understand that where you're coming from is not unreasonable, or uncommon. And if you try and remind her that... she was trying to do this for you... and that you felt it was wrong to 'fake' liking it, all the while feeling extremely uncomfortable and emberassed. Surely that's not what she wants. So remind her WHY you're being honest.

But I do think you need to say something BEFORE your trip. Give her time to be upset, and to get over it, BEFORE your trip. I'm sure this isn't going to be a huge deal in the long-run. Plus... it'll help her understand what sort of 'surprises' you are likely to appreciate, and to not appreciate, an why that's the case. Which is always good moving forward.

But an honest and possibly unpleasant conversation is in your future. I can't see any other way to handle this. Good luck. 🙂

[stratford]

This kind of thing?

[Asker]

not that much but behind is a string ! the string it won't be visible from the back

[stratford]

Enjoy it!

[KrisPW]

Who will she be sitting next to and going home with?

[Asker]

with me !! thats for sure ! i know i will get really hard looking at her and we will have some awosome anal later tonight ! but that can happened looking her sexy ass in home

[KrisPW]

Then why are you worried about your girlfriend being looked at? Jealousy? over a girl who is going home with you at the end? Be proud that she looks good enough to draw attention and picked YOU to go home with!.

[Asker]

i dont how i will feel ! it is my ass not everyones

[KrisPW]

Ahemmm... It is HER ass, not yours or anyones. If flaunting it make her feel sexy, and you get the benefit when you get somewhere private, I'm not sure why you would be complaining.
If you have some moral objection, then you need to discuss it with her and decide if it's a dealbreaker for your relationship.

[jlee99]

Yes, they will. What's your question though?

[Asker]

it supposed to be a surprice for me ! but now i know and i dont know if i want all the men staring my girlfriend ass!

[jlee99]

Then talk to her about it?

[Asker]

i can't tell her that i found her thongs bikinis

[soe11]

• If you love her, let fulfilled her wish.
• You should be proud of yourself.
• Your girlfriend is progressive mind.
• You cannot change her, but approve and appreciate her choice.
• We live in current time zone.
• We must learn to adopt, adapt and adjust.

[USLegionary]

People will be aware of her ass yes. Enjoy the show. As long as your family isn't there.

[Asker]

no we are going alone ! i quess the show it will be for me ! and men can jerk of looking at her ass later

[USLegionary]

Men can do that anyway.

[Asker]

yes ! but i will be the one licking and fucking it

[USLegionary]

So what is the problem?

[Asker]

i dont know how i feld leting my girlfriend ass for everyone

[USLegionary]

She wants people to see her ass

[Asker]

not me? i think is for me !

[USLegionary]

You and every other guy there.

[Asker]

why?

[RobT312]

Sounds pretty hot! Go with it and be surprised and enjoy

[Asker]

enjoy all men stare at my girlfriend ass?

[RobT312]

Dont worry about it…let her enjoy wearing what she wants

[Asker]

and everybody to enjoy her ass.. hmm

[RobT312]

Yes I guess so. But you benefit as well and I don’t think everyone will look as much as you think ! In Europe people are more mature about body exposure at beaches. I’m sure u will see topless women there.

I suppose if it really bothers you, tell her how u feel.

[Asker]

i quess the show it will be more for me !

[LiamJHayden]

From what you said, it sounds like she did this for you.

[Asker]

yes is for me but other men will be there

[MountAverage]

Lucky you. No idea what you're complaining about.

[Asker]

guys looking my girlfriend ass! in a string bikini

[MountAverage]

Like I said, lucky you. I'd be so proud and feel so happy that the girl that every other guy finds out is MY girlfriend. I'd also think it's super hot that my girlfriend feels so confident about her body and displays it like that. What a shame that she's with someone who doesn't appreciate all that.

Also, you should work on your insecurities. They will eventually ruin your relationship.

[Anonymous]

Yes, all they will do. Good luck people not say something and make noise if she is olso hot

[Asker]

she is really hot

[misogynistic_pig]

Thongs are for bitches.

[Asker]

my girlfriend is not a bitch sir!

[joeldalton]

They will. So what?

[Asker]

it is my girlfriend !!

[joeldalton]

yup. She's not yours, she's just yours right now.

[Asker]

no forever! why u said that?

[joeldalton]

because I know the truth,

[Asker]

and whats that

[joeldalton]

She is only yours temporarliy.

[Asker]

ahah why? we won't break up

[joeldalton]

but she may dump you. But whatever, all this is silly. It's ok that other guys look. IF she's banging you.

[Asker]

i quess she is

[jjj101010]

Maybe that is for the bedroom not the spa

[Asker]

in bedroom is less i quess

[jjj101010]

Does she tend to dress up for the bedroom?

[Asker]

yeah ! stocking sexy lignewear and slutty cosplay

[jjj101010]

Lucky guy! I’m pleased for u drop me a message if u like?

[Asker]

ohh you send me ! thank u

[jjj101010]

Ur anon so I can’t see ur user name. Just follow me and I’ll message u if u can't