What trait stops a hot woman from wanting to sleep around?

[marish01]

I'd say high self-worth, dignity, maturity and family values

[BlueScorpio]

I agree with what you said, mines is cause I don't like the idea of just getting intimate with any man. One night stands have always grossed me out and I dint know how people do it. I don't know the man or where/who he's been with, there's just to many diseases out there to just sleep with any guy. Plus I wouldn't want to have an unplanned pregnancy with just any guy who will more thank likely not help or support me. Also you never know who you're dealing with, to many people end up dead and missing after sleeping with strangers.

[marish01]

Exactly.
It is absolutely gross to touch a stranger's genitalia. I wouldn't want to sleep on a bed where a stranger has slept just because their skin touched it let alone directly touch their body let alone their genitalia let alone kissing.
Yikes

[BLYNd]

Where the hell you know if he enjoyed the night he dont want more? You might fear cause your not able to be in a realtionship...
You more need a dog than a man

[Alliegal]

@BLYNd hush kid or I’ll dribble your head off the canvas like a basketball

[BLYNd]

@Alliegal Simply just a narccistic or some ASPD, see everybody these are the dangerious species among us, they d rown you in a spoon of water...

[BlueScorpio]

@BLYNd you're offended over the fact I think one stands and pointless sex us gross? Lol also I'm married. Aren't you guys online constantly bitching about how women are too easy and having high body counts, now you want wome to be okay with sleeping around? Make up your mind kiddo.

[marish01]

Don't you know some men shame you for being loyal to your man? It hurts their ego that they can't find a woman like you.

[Guy13]

A woman of this type might be perceived as “hated by a man” but she is both secretly longed for and respected. One thing for sure is the hot woman who does not sleep around will never respond too or utter “let’s hang out or Netflix and Chill”.

She holds herself, men, and likely people in general to a higher Standard
To her sex is beautiful, a gift 🎁, special, and even sacred. It is to be shared between her and one other special person in loving commitment or in marriage. Sex is not a means to an End.

She loves deeply and her restraint and virtue empowers her in all other areas in her life. She seems to be favored by others and people either love her or hate her but ALL respect her even if it kill us.

[Tomcat68]

It’s different for women. Men have a much higher libido. Testosterone is a powerful drug:) Also consider women don’t experience orgasums as frequently. The mental aspect is not something all women can do with a stranger. They have to worry more about STDs and of course pregnancy. They have to worry about physical safety and slut shaming. An attractive woman is also going to be much more aware and cautious because she likely gets more attention and has seen some of the bad elements. I can understand why some might be reluctant.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

I agree with your answer. To add some more, they might be desiring to retire from that kind of life and may want to have children, or serious long term relationship, or be a wife. Many women have biological clock when they reach at a certain point of their lives.

But if a woman looks hot doesn't mean she'll want to sleep around, and not every woman who wants to sleep around is hot. I've seen enough 👀😂

[marish01]

I know. I just specified hot women

[NeverknowNeverTell]

honestly family values and self worth could be a factor, but I think it's about safety also. More risky for girls to have casual sex than it is for men. women who are much more informed on the dangers of sexual relationships won't likely willingly get into one. Girls have to think about pregnancy, sexual assault, possibility of getting drugged, kidnapped. usually the fear and shame outweigh the momentary pleasure you may get from a hookup. most girls who are grateful for there lives won't risk ruin it like that.

[marish01]

I think it also grosses them out to touch a stranger on the most intimate parts.
And it is humiliating to be treated as nothing but a sex object.

[NeverknowNeverTell]

agree entirely. especially the sex object part, those types of relationships are more toxic than fun

[marish01]

Is it not being sex object to be treated as nothing but good only for fucking?

[NeverknowNeverTell]

yes I was agree with you on that

[AmeerX]

Religion, family values because I have heard of prude agnostic people too. Self worth is possible but I did say above two play the ultimate role.

Once women in family start sleeping around the cycle will continue for the next 3 generations

[Katyalov]

Oh so cause she doesn’t sleep around with just anyone suddenly she’s a prude. You need to stop judging those who live different lifestyles than you

[marish01]

@Katyalov I've been called a prude for not wanting to sleep with a stranger. Lol

[AmeerX]

@Katyalov I meant it in a goodway. I call myself prude too. I don't sleep around and waiting till marriage too. I don't think it is something bad. It's actually something good 🙂

[AmeerX]

Marish, it's a good thing that you are a good girl ))

[marish01]

Yes I'm a good girl. Not a prude lol

[AmeerX]

Haha, you two are still going on about it 😂. Don't feel like it is an insult please. I am prude too

[BLYNd]

Self worth- What a word, never undestood

[AmeerX]

@BLYNd and how would you? Do you really want someone who has her mouth licked clean a dozen times at lease by a dozen different people?
Come on man if she was divorced I might be fine but a first marriage should be to someone who is virgin

[BLYNd]

Hilarious, Only thing i care is the absence of std. I am not a jealous type... I dont want to control any woman...

[AmeerX]

@BLYNd i also don't want to control.

[BLYNd]

Control contains her sexal life, if she want to have sex with others or just spend time, whatever

[AmeerX]

@BLYNd that's for the couple to decide if they want to open the relationship or not beforehand

[CA4444]

I just don’t want to - if I want to do smth and I can then I need a good reason not to do it and as far as relationships or sex go I’d leave my family out of it lol. what has dignity anything to do with it there no need to feel guilty or ashamed about what you wish in life if it isn’t bad in itself

[marish01]

Dignity as to not let men use your body for just pleasure.
Family values as valuing your intimacy for your husband and being a good mother material

[CA4444]

Yeah I definitely don’t want to be used. But I’m single and could hook up with nice guys very easily (for mutual enjoyment I guess). Again I just don’t want to because i want to be centered and on my own and I want an emotional connection with sex and that’s how women are in general right?

[CA4444]

We all need to live for ourselves in the present moment. That’s part of true self respect and dignity

[marish01]

I could sleep around too but I don't want the idea of sex without love grosses me out both physically and morally.

[CA4444]

Yeah that’s how we are I think 😄 even if I’m super horny I wouldn’t want to do anything with a ‘random’ guy

[marish01]

Yes just because I have needs doesn't mean I want just a body to touch

[MCheetah]

Self-respect and dignity. Something many of today's "hot women" lack.

"You can now finally die with some dignity." - Tanya Winters

[JamesDiaz11]

I would say a community mindset. Women who care about their reputation, their family's reputation, and are held to account won't act the same as those who have no accountability and live in society's where nobody knows them, their family, or their past.

[12Volt]

I wonder which reality will happen first...

1. Sexbots will be perfected to the point that they are preferred over humans.

2. AI, advanced algorithms, machine learning and quantum computing will bring about the cure for all the diseases in the world.

My point is... whatever that "trait" is, it's going to be put to the test when the options start rolling in.

[Sonorous]

I think it's complex & unique to the individual. But if I had to give a general answer, it would be that the woman would have certain moral beliefs, values, principles, (etc) that stop her from sleeping around.

[WhitneySnow]

Agreed. Or she’s just not into casual hookups. Plenty of average girls sleep around to validate their looks. Hot girls don’t have to do that.

[marish01]

Many women on socialedia told me I envy women who sleep around because they get male attention lol
That's not the attention of being hot but just a woman who gives access to her body for others.

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t agree with you all the time but you’re 100% right on this one

[marish01]

I assume we talked before?
I don't remember you.

[WhitneySnow]

No. We haven’t. But I’ve read your opinions before.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Love this. ❤️

[WhitneySnow]

@SeriouslyFunny00 thanks ❤️

[Paulalove98]

The things you said because it shows she sets higher standards and boundaries for herself then setting herself on a low level.

[7Phoenix7]

I agree with you, and you can add religion, wisdom, intelligence, and even fear for some women

[HighValue]

The same traits that cause an attractive man to not have casual sex. They have good morals and want to be able to form a strong attachment to a future long term partner. That is my reasons anyways for not participating in casual sex.

[suzzieQ]

Social pressure, inherent risk, and free will. There are plenty if people with high self-worth, dignity, maturity and family values that enjoy sex because they like it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with safe consensual sexual activity between two adults.

[marish01]

What makes you think ahot woman is turned on by the idea of casual sex? Maybe the idea of being treated as a sex object and touching a stranger's genitalia grosses her out?

[suzzieQ]

Well first of all I did not say nor did I imply that. Some people like having sex others do not. Regardless, sexual activity between to consenting adults is not synonymous with lack of self worth, lack of dignity or lack of maturity like you are trying to insinuate.

[marish01]

You can still love sex but choose not to sleep around.
Mature people don't sleep around.

[marish01]

And sleeping around shows lack of self worth.
Does he want you for love? No because you're not worthy of love according to him. And your self-worth is low enough to be okay with such humiliating treatment.
I am not willing to let a stranger touch my most intimate body parts. He should live, value, respect, cherish me and be married to me. See how high I put my standards?
It's not that easy to get near to this body.

[suzzieQ]

According to what data? What data are you using to form the opinion that mature people do not engage in casual sex?

Love and sex are not synonymous. Why is it that you believe that having sex with someone you chose is humiliating? You dont have to want to, and that is okay. What is not okay is to make unfounded judgments based in prejudice about people you dont know for something that doesn't affect you in any way. You standards are not high, they are just you standards and that's okay as long as you dont try to enforce them on others or look down on them because they do not share them.

[marish01]

I explained. Should I repeat?

[marish01]

How can a mature person agree to share the most intimate act with someone they know nothing about? This is an impulsive behavior.

[suzzieQ]

Well, you gave opinions, I asked what data those opinions are based on.

They do it by choosing to do so. It could be an impulsive choice but just because a person chose to have casual sex doesn't automatically mean it is impulsive.

[marish01]

I use basic logic. I explained why I believe sleeping around show low self worth and immaturity.
A slut chooses to sleep around because her self esteem is low enough to allow her to be touched sexually by men who view her as a sex object.
A girl who has high self worth never gives consent to such treatment.

[marish01]

"You standards are not high"
How aren't they high. I said I am not willing to let a stranger touch my most intimate body parts. He should love, value, respect, cherish me and be married to me. See how high I put my standards?
It's not that easy to get near to this body.

These are not high standards?

[suzzieQ]

Basic logic based on what data?

[suzzieQ]

Lol they aren't high standards they are just standards. Standards that many share and many who don't. Having those specific standards don't mean they are higher than someone who has different standards. Nor does it make your morally superior or more mature like you are implying.

[marish01]

Based on my own opinion. I don't need anyone's opinion to understand that women with low self esteem sleep around.

[marish01]

Explain how they aren't high standards

[suzzieQ]

Because they are very common and very normal...

[suzzieQ]

And what is your opinion based on? Morality? Data? Religion? Personal experience? Culture? Your family?

That would also be incorrect, there are plenty of women with low self-esteem that dont have sex at all and there are many with high self-esteem that have lots of sex.

[marish01]

What does common or normal have to do with the level of standards?

[marish01]

I wasn't talking about the amount of sex but about sleeping around.
Women with high self esteem can have lots of sex but not sleep around.

[suzzieQ]

According to what? Your unfounded opinions or data?

[marish01]

I don't need anyone's opinion to form my own opinion about self-worth

[suzzieQ]

Okay but how do you form your opinions? Or do you now know?

[marish01]

Yes by my own values, m9rals and logic.

You said the reason why women don't want to sleep around is social pressure, inherent risk, and free will. I as someone who doesn't want to sleep around can say that the reasons are what I listed above

[suzzieQ]

yeah you keep saying that, what are your morals values and opinion based on? Do you know?

[marish01]

My own analytical thinking and views on love, intimacy, self-worth.
What is so hard to understand?

[marish01]

So according to you what are the all reasons why sleeping around doesn't fascinate me?

[suzzieQ]

Because I am asking what that is based on and you refuse to answer, presumably because you dont know. what are those views based on? Do you even know?

[marish01]

You have difficulties with understanding. I explained.

[suzzieQ]

Do you not understand English very well? Lol or are you just account the question because you don’t know?

[D_Bone_Steak]

She would have to have values and the ability to self-validate herself.

[techgirl7]

Self-respect/no longer wanting to be used for sex, biological clock ticking/wanting to settle down, marry, and have a family, and the obvious.. not wanting to get pregnant.

[SnowedIn]

Question, though: if they are of legal age, consenting, and not cheating, why shouldn't she or he sleep with other folks?

Or was your question about cheating?

[APrettyLittleLady87]

Drop dead

[CoolCatMar1]

All of the above things you mentioned are true.

[FreyaRed]

It's knowledge not a trait. She doesn't need affirmation of others to prove value of her sexual assets, she just has it and she knows that.

[Pegases]

Sleeping around for both men and women always boils down to validation. For both its linked to low self esteem.

[Daniela1982]

Her ability to get off, with no danger of pregnancy or STDs on Only Fans.

[Songomatic]

A Waste of time.
Rejection after a good time and romance.
Becoming a mistress only.
One night stands.
Lies.
Pregnancy.
Sexual objectification.
Roofied.

[dustybiker]

It’s more lacking the trait that makes a person think they should.

[marish01]

What is that trait?

[dustybiker]

The one that makes people think it’s okay to cheat. It’ll probably come forward as similar to alcoholism someday.

[unicornflowerpops]

Nothing. Most likely finding an equally sexually active guy who is confident

[marish01]

She has found and refuses to let him touch het as he's not her boyfriend or husband

[Apple1996]

Probably anxiety and fear of catching a std

[slatyb]

Why would she want to, instead of having a high-quality partner?

[marish01]

If she is single and can't find a boyfriend

[slatyb]

"Hot" and "can't find a boyfriend" don't seem to go together.

[marish01]

Lol. Hot and "has high standards"

[Tina19]

When she is aware that she is hot and seductive and so many men want her in bed it's basically about knowing own self worth

[DaisyM23]

I guess family values or dignity would stop anyone from sleeping around?

[Alliegal]

Being made of the right stuff! Having character, moxie and valuing sexual health

[Savage9821]

Being treated right and feeling appreciated

[DaveToo]

How "HOT" a woman is has very little to do with her sexual appetite.

[Anonymous]

Typically whether she had a positive male role model growing up. If she didn't have a father, there's a good chance there's a stripper pole in her future.

[Alchemizt]

I agree with you, and her faith could also be one reason. Respect for such women.

[bamesjond0069]

She doesn't want to be a slut and ruin her reputation.

[marish01]

Only that?
Aren't there other reasons why sleeping around doesn't fascinate her?

[bamesjond0069]

Sure. I think you listed them.

[marish01]

Oh you added. Ok

[Anonymous]

Just not wanting to. We can have whoever we want but it doesn't mean we want everyone.

[msc545]

She has not found someone she thinks is better... yet.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

It’s disgusting

[melanieeeB]

Maybe she just doesn't want to

[marish01]

Yes. That's the question. What are the reasons why she DOESN'T WANT TO

[melanieeeB]

No interest lol

[marish01]

Yes why?

[melanieeeB]

I personally could fuck around but I don't feel like it, has nothing to do with self worth to me cause I don't see fucking around as something bad (unless you fuck around with disgusting people out of desperation) but I just don't wanna have sex right now and also I don't like letting strangers getting close to me. Everyone has their own reasons but I don't support "slut" shaming.

[marish01]

Have you ever slept around?

[marish01]

Yes everyone has their own reasons and I listed mine self respect being one of them.

[melanieeeB]

No I haven't... not yet, who knows

[marish01]

So you consider it?

[melanieeeB]

Not in near future but if one day I want to, I would smh

[Bethany22]

Caring about stds

[marish01]

Only that?

[Anonymous]

She has a high-quality man at home.

[BJP21]

Standards is a BIG one.

Self worth

[LiamJHayden]

You nailed it. And possibly her faith.

[Anonymous]

Social Pressure. That’s it. Sex is a pleasure.

[marish01]

What if she doesn't wanted to be treated as nothing but holes?

[Opinion Owner]

It is not one-sided. She sees the guys as a pleasurable too. It is a preference. Maybe she just loves sex.

[marish01]

But he still wants you only for your holes.
Does he want you for love? No because you're not worthy of love according to him. And your self-worth is low enough to be okay with such humiliating treatment.

[Opinion Owner]

But if a woman wants him just for sex? You are right if there is a serious relationship and he acts like it, but if there is a just sex why is this important? This is not humiliating if it is two- sided.

[marish01]

Still your self worth allows you to let him touch your MOST INTIMATE body parts without loving you or cherishing you.
My self-worth doesn't allow me to accept such treatment.

[Twalli]

Pretty much nailed it

[LimitedBenefits101]

You gave the perfect answer👍

[orangecherry]

self respect and willpower when she gets tempted

[marish01]

Is it possible not to get temped by a stranger?

[orangecherry]

the question didn't say anything about strangers. just sleeping around with anyone even a crush

[marish01]

Sleep around as sleep with someone you're not in a relationship with

[Andres77]

A healthy self-esteem

[Alex8736]

with the same partner?

[marish01]

With love?

[Alex8736]

yes ❤️

[Alex8736]

in all reality meeting the right person and being a team looking forward to, a bright future together

[Jamie05rhs]

High standards of self conduct. Piety.

[cloud9vortex1234]

They're probably with their First Choice.

[Shamalien]

Self respect

[Audiofox]

Tactfulness.

[AmeerX]

It's being a good person. Sleeping around is not an achievement for both men and women

[BLYNd]

More like what she projects on you

[NathanDavis]

choices

[CubaPirate]

Self worth

[LovingJo]

Dignity 😂💯❤️

[Grond21]

Self awareness

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Impunity

[jimmy2]

Lustful ways

[Anonymous]

Arrogance

[marish01]

Lol.

[Opinion Owner]

True

[marish01]

Arrogance or high self worth?