ill make this short and sweet. I’m 24 first semester of college I started late, I’m in shape and mature for my age. I notice the maturity level difference between me and my peers especially the guys, I’m wondering if girls are intimidated by that?, I get quick glances from woman but I really don’t care for dating. I’m focused on my goals and becoming better. Can woman notice I’m different from other younger guys in college by my behaviour? I have a good sense of style, I get respect and I’m introverted so I don’t really talk unless it’s something that requires talking then I’m fine. Would say I’m attractive 7/10 but don’t want to act like that matters or over hyped myself. Just asking thanks !:)
Girls, College girls advice? Or woman in general :)?
What Girls Said
Yes, women do notice if a man is more mature than his peers. At your age (24), you have approximately the same maturity as a woman aged approximately 21-22 but it is definitely a big step forward from a boy of 18, whose maturity level would be equivalent of a girl of 16.
It seems to me that you are more focused on what women will think of you rather than your studies otherwise you would not have made such a descriptive.
Don't worry, the girls that are really interested in their future are not the ones that will drool over you. Those are the more intelligent ones and the drooling are basically left to those girls that could not really care about their future but attend college because they were told to. Those would lack character and personality. Those are the ones you would not want to mingle with in the first place.
The general feeling I get from this is your ego is out of control, and women can sense that from a mile away.
He's got a charming name too...