Girls, Have you ever accidentally hurt a guy you had a crush on?

[Anonymous]

If so what happened?

[Anonymous]

Yes i have

I did hurt my current boyfriend.

We used to be together from 2020 October to January 2021. He broke up with me with an excuse that he want to focus on school and stuff. And sayd that I am a wifey.

In April 2021, I got a new boyfriend till we broke up in June 2022.

So in June, my ex from 2020 found out that I m single and wanted ro get together.
He dayd that he tried in tinder to fimd girls, but girls there were weird and could not find anyone like me. I don't know if he though I would be happy to hear that, but I was not. I felt like he only want to be with me just because he couldn't fins other girls. I was not sure if I want him back in my life or not. We had sex twice, even though we were not together yet. He kept trying in cute ways. But I wanted to show him that he is not my only option, so I told him that I have other candidates that I want to date in the summer and get to know what I fewl about them or him. It was the truth anyway. And I also showed him the evidence of thouse guys because I wanted ro tease him and make him jealous.

He was sad, but sayd that he can wait for me.

I went to two dates, but It did not work between me and the other two guys. There were some red flags I didn't like. And I had sex with one of the under the weeks of dating.

I thought that I shiuld nit involve myself with my ex, because I know that if I get dumped by the person i love twice, its gonna hurt more. So I did not dare. So I lied and sayd that I choose someone else. He got rejected

But after a month, I regretted my decision because I kept thinking about him. So I sayd that I was sorry and want him. But he was so angry. He sayd that I misslead him and gave him hope of being together and destroyed them. I understand him, and I was the one in wrong. But we were nit even together and I had free will to date whoever I want, but he thought that it was wrong. So that is how I hurt him.

But he forgave me and we ve been together now for 4 months.

[Clairebear799]

I’m too ashamed to talk about it 😭

[Asker]

Oh no was it that embarrassing?

[Clairebear799]

A little in also still sad

[Asker]

What happened?

[Clairebear799]

Yeah not getting into that story.