How do you expose a bully who pretends to have good intentions?

[Anonymous]

A girl in my friendship group has been a huge bully to me and tried to ruin my life covertly, but she butters other people up so that if I speak out about her bullying, no one believes me because she comes across as so nice and kind to them.

How do I expose what she has been trying to do to me behind the scenes? Whenever she is confronted with her evil behaviour, she cries, lies that it never happened and plays the victim. And people believe her because of all the nice things she does for other people. How do I get people to see what she's done? I have text conversations where she bullied me constantly and called me fat, ugly, stupid, taunting me etc. and said she would sleep with my boyfriend.

[Helotome]

Then play victim too then show her messages so people will get shocked. But personally I would avoid her and block her. She would talk to me then I will go on my way ignoring her. It's hard to hard to ignore that empty evil headed girl but try so. Wish you luck ⚘ don't entertain her with your attention act like she isn't here. Avoid whoever defends her.

[Asker]

Thank you so much xx

[Asker]

I will try that. I just can't stoop to her level and I don't cry easily unlike her

[HappyWoman34]

Be really nice and non judgmental and show the texts to your friends and comment that you don’t understand this behaviour.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'd say the best thing to do is get her out of your life. You might have to make new friends, but don't be surprised if some of the friends you left behind come back as soon as they became the target.

[Anonymous]

Catch them in the act being a bully.