What’s the best way to deal with a bully?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well I guess that depends on who you are and how much you're going to take..

What you don't want to do is get loud and out of control because that's what the bullies trying to do

He was probably bullied and he acted like a big pussy so now he's only smart enough to find somebody that he can believe because he knows otherwise he'll get his ass kicked..

But if he does something to you verbally mentally physically you have many options you can embarrass him by coming up with a one-liner. I just asked the guy dude how long the doctor say you're going to act this way..

Whatever time school gets out asking where he's going to be because your big brother wants to meet him... You can ignore him but he's going to keep coming...

And if he gets too close to you I really don't recommend this but you can hit him as hard as you want in his mouth and hopefully he goes on his ass

I'm sure he probably only does it at school so get the principal a teacher involved

But the moment you get loud and out of control are the moment he sees fear coming from you he's got you right where he wants you.

You can also very quietly just look at him deep in his eyes and say bro when's the last time you had your ass kicked don't give him any more information than that just ask him that question because if you answered him anything then he knows whether he should worry or not but if you don't say anything he doesn't know what's going on

Most bullies are pussies anyway they only take on people that they know that they can either scare or intimidate or beat up.
The best way I guess would be to report it anything else you might retaliate on what you would be all good because the more he would retaliate the more he would have his ass beat but..

See if the school district has any codes about people bullying you can copy that and tell him to look it up any better hurry up and do it..

Maybe adopt a big brother

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

Punch him right in the BACK of the fucking head!!
On one hand, ignoring them is a fairly good way to get them to leave you alone. If they can't rile you, they MIGHT stop. But, a much quicker way is to beat the shit out of them!! They like to think they're the toughest guy in the school, or what have you. Show them they're NOT, ESPECIALLY in front of others, like their friends, and they won't try you anymore! They might even try to be your friend! You showed you can whip their ass so, THEY wanna hang out with YOU!
I was in band class in Jr. High. Being a drummer, my place was way up high in the back of the risers. One day, I walked into class, drumsticks in hand, and this kid was defying me to get past him to get up to where the drums were. He stood in my way with his right hand wrapped around the metal bar. He refused to move, I noticed his hand tightly holding the bar and, holding the tip ends of my sticks together semi-tightly, I smacked the back of his knuckles with the handle end of the sticks and he moved the fuck out of my way REAL quick!! And, from then on, he wanted to be my friend!!
The thing is, if you hold the sticks that way, when you hit something with them, the top stick is still going in that direction at the same time that the bottom stick is trying to come back up but, the stop stick won't let it and then they BOTH go down at the same time so, it's like hitting the object twice with one swing. That huts knuckles a LOT more than if I held the sticks the other way!

Account · Accepted Answer

Bully them back. If they get physical, you get physical towards them too. I learned this ever since I was a child (it was my parents' advice).
That is the only way for them to back off.
I have never snitched on anyone, I have always dealt with such things on my own. For reasons unknown they respect you after you show them your teeth.

Vesuvius87 · Accepted Answer

Today the best way would be to record the bullying and expose them for what they are, make their reputation as a bully suffer.

Billlewis · Answer

Any time a guy is bullying me, if a woman who I'm interested in starts dating him, I'll just fall at her feet ❤️

SomothErgai · Answer

How dirty do you want to get your hands?

My philosophy has always been zero tolerance for bullies. For myself or for others. If I ever saw a kid physically abusing another I would fuck their shit up like you wouldn't believe. I built up a reputation for being a hardcore fighter for that kind of shit and lo and behold, no one ever even attempted to bully me.

Don't be afraid to go upside some cunts head of they're mistreating you. People frown on it but you can't let people walk all over you

b_lova · Answer

Match their aggression. They typically back down once the realize you won't fold.

If it's in the work environment, you have to do it in a professional manner, but the same rules apply.

But don't ever match them in a shouting match. They hate it when they shout or curse and see you are not getting riled up. Always stay calm and show them how childish they are if they do either of those.

Anonymous · Answer

Largely ignore them. I'm sarcastic, I'll outwit them verbally and make them look foolish. Problem with this tactic is you have to know your bully. Most bullies are big mouths. They don't want to fight. But if you do this you might pick the one that isn't opposed to throwing down. And if a bully puts thier hands on you I don't care who they are or what they said, you have to f***ing end that person!

So as I said I would probably just largely ignore that person. Why get all rowdy if you don't have to.

You got to kind of match your response to the bully.

Levin · Answer

Stand up to them. Most of them pick on you simply because you don't say or do anything back.

Work on self empowerment, ie learning how to fight.

Be aware of the energetic dynamics between people and also that you emit. Far more than we realise is happening subconsciously that allows these situations to come into play.

DJB72 · Answer

Stand up to them. It's probably easier for a guy because a well placed kick in the nuts goes further than a barbed comment, but my teenage bullies all stopped after I stood my ground and took down the biggest of them with a knee to his nuts.

That's over 30 years ago and I'm told he still walks funny...

Starrrboy · Answer

Bullies are a lot weaker than you think.. half of their game is all about you being scared... Just pull yourself together and stand up against them once, it'll break the psychological wall and they can't intimidate you anymore.. Or at least it won't be as bad as before..

LiamS95 · Answer

Depends where the bullying is taking place. If at a school report the bully to the principal or to a student counselor. If at a place of work report the bully to the human resources manager or if the company is not big enough to have an HR department report the bully to your supervisor.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Violence. Kick their ass Scare the shit out of them and let them know you’re not to be fucked with. They’ll move on to an easier victim instead.

InDetail · Answer

Fight back without warning.  Most people do not mess with people they can't predict.  Before bullying happens keep your reaction consistent, five them none and just look them in the eye.

Anonymous · Answer

Everyone that replied here lost their common sense.
"Fight him"destroy him"bully him back"

How about you go to police or something first? What if you end up with charges because of fighting back?
You should report to police or someone that can actually do something about it and if that doesn't work then choose violence.

But I'm the minority here so go ahead with the crowd and see how it turns out

Cutegirl06 · Answer

In my experience standing up to a bully most of them are just cowards.

Anonymous · Answer

I've helped people who were being harassed through prayer calling on the power of Jesus Christ.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Until you provide some context, there is no way of knowing how to answer that!

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Defend yourself, if their bullying is verbal, defend yourself verbally, if it's physical, defend yourself physically

LaurenM1997 · Answer

If they hit you hit them back if they bully you bully them back it’s called self defence

exitseven · Answer

Get a piece of pipe or a two by four and go over to him and beat the living crap out of him.

Anonymous · Answer

If it’s a guy… Fuck him kr at least suck him off

mickeysmonkey · Answer

Beat them at their own game, or be kind to them before they come up to you

NathanDavis · Answer

with a doggy...

Agape93 · Answer

@Jessica405 heheheheh 00 buckshot xD

ApplePie409 · Answer

If I told you, would you reply? No.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Make friends with them.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Bully them back.

laly520 · Answer

to stand up for urself first

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

Rock their body with nasty hooks

Iron_Man · Answer

Punch back hard

JacobJordan · Answer

Violence

ThebestIndian · Answer

Ignorance.

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