Why don't women love men unconditionally?

[HighlyQuestionable]

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I am asking this and so many other questions for a reason.

I have never been in a relationship and if I am ever fortunate enough to be so, I do not want to make common mistakes.

[DizzyDesii]

I’d probably have to be married to him to love him unconditionally. I don't know. I can love a kid of my own unconditionally but i can't promise any adult that

[HighlyQuestionable]

Yes, i have noticed that women often seem able to love children far easier than adult men. It means that you are essentially not "straight" (heterosexual or heteroromantic). As a "straight" male (hetero), I can actually fall in love at first sight and love a woman unconditionally.

So many women pass themselves off as "straight" because they want children.

We need to make it clear that it takes more than the crude desire to reproduce/have intercourse to make someone "straight", It takes real EMOTIONS.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao stfu with that “all women are bisexual/lesbians” shit. You just mad no woman may love you unconditonally. Im gonna leave before i say the wrong thing

[HighlyQuestionable]

No, not Bisexual/Lesbians. Just breeders. They can't love an adult, requires normal social skills... and don't leave Des... it's just getting good.

[jennifer_bloom]

Not even God loves people unconditionally. But good women love men for their character and not their superficial and uncontrollable qualities.

[Anonymous]

It's better if they don't, we would all bathe in atrazine if being masculine wasn't required to attract women.

[HighlyQuestionable]

I don't get it, how can it possibly be better? (and I do know the supposed side effects of that herbicide)

[Opinion Owner]

The herbicide famously turn the frogs gay (study on frogs even has images of unexposed males mounting males, who produced viable eggs) and it's just deadly toxic in many other ways.

Them having requirements in order to love men, forces us to be better. And it's better when we're better.

[HighlyQuestionable]

It doesn't necessarily force "us" to be "better". Geniuses are "better" than morons, yet high IQ males do not often have better chances finding life partners. Men with integrity are "better" than greedy capitalists... and yet...

I do not expect "women" to impress me, I accept them as they are. I am either attracted to them or not immediately. I expect the same honesty from women.

Either feel something towards me for who I am, or do not... DO NOT see me as a "product".

[TheSpaceGnome]

Its technicslly not turning frogs gay, its changing male frogs into female frogs. Unlike humans, certain amphibians, fish, and reptiles can change their biological sex under certain conditions. It is likely that the herbicide is artificially inducing the change outside of its normal context.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Is not in their DNA to love men unconditionally

[HighlyQuestionable]

@Limited: LOVE has absolutely nothing to do with DNA!

[AmyHew1tt]

Why don't men love women unconditionally? Unless they're in a strong, connected relationship, people are not likely to love each other no matter what.

[HighlyQuestionable]

I did imply this in connection with a relationship.

[AmyHew1tt]

Either way, men don't love women any more than women love men.

[HighlyQuestionable]

That is not true, in my experience, and to add weight to my statement read DizzyDesii's opinion below.

[AmyHew1tt]

It is true, though. We all love similarly, men or women. Women are not disinclined to love men more than men are to women. Unless you're looking at people on the internet, where it may seem that way.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I would, minus the condition that it was reciprocated.

[HappyWoman34]

because men don’t love them unconditionally.

[HighlyQuestionable]

I certainly want this level of emotion with a potential girlfriend/Wife.

[HappyWoman34]

If you’re willing to give it, then you should expect it and aim higher. A lot of women become cynical about men after dating lots of assholes and then get afraid to love. Aim higher, find someone sensible that you get on with. Good men and good women are getting harder to find, but they’re out there.

[HighlyQuestionable]

Women getting cynical is a real problem for me. I should not be held responsible for other foolish men and their ways. I start anew each day w/ renewed hope... although that hasn't helped me in 25 years.

[HappyWoman34]

You’re totally right. They should get counselling and grow up. Unless they’re really damaged.

[HappyWoman34]

What if you were to try meeting people at community college courses, local clubs through meetup, religious groups, through friends, etc?

[TacosRAwesome]

Because when they do they get fucked over for having no standards. Also not even parents love their children unconditionally so why should anyone else?

[AsaKyo]

Some girls do, but then the guy shits on them

Some guys also do, but then the girl shits on them

It can go both ways

[TheSpaceGnome]

There needs to be a method to filter out the ones who won't so both sides can find eachother.

[HighlyQuestionable]

@TheSpaceGnome : Good idea, and that could potentially be achieved by creating "public" dating websites., those not under control of for-profit companies.
That and people being honest about themselves.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm all for that idea.

[Nikki1989]

Nobody loves anyone unconditionally.

[HighlyQuestionable]

I disagree.
Please elaborate.

[Anonymous]

I love my partner unconditionally💁‍♀️

[HighlyQuestionable]

I wish I I could be as lucky as him :)

[Opinion Owner]

Could still be in the stars one day!☺️

[MountAverage]

It's not a gender thing.

[HighlyQuestionable]

It may not be a gender thing, but in my experience here in the midwest, women are mostly uncaring towards men.

[MountAverage]

And yet, other men in the Midwest will have different experiences. So what does it matter?

[MountAverage]

Also damn, you must be travelling around a lot, cause the Midwest is huge!

[HighlyQuestionable]

No, not the whole midwest, just in my particular area, sorry if that seemed a generalization.

[Anonymous]

Cause there assholes mostly.

[HighlyQuestionable]

Please Elaborate

[Opinion Owner]

Because they leave you, ghost you, have no feelings at all.

[HighlyQuestionable]

Are you lesbian?
It sounds like you have been done wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

Hell no.

[HighlyQuestionable]

I misunderstood