Women can't love men unconditionally the way men can love women unconditionally agree?

[Drewtate]

Agree

Disagree

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[ChicoFromThe305]

Surely seems that way, I actually asked God for spiritual guidance about women cause I really needed it and I told God to be as clear as day with me and I ran into

Proverbs 31:3

"Do not give your strength to women, your ways to those who destroy kings."
Reading these verses in proverbs really opened my eyes, I've spent a lot of time and energy chasing women, sacrificing my time and energy on them but it never led to good results, I've realized I was doing it wrong, I'm not suppose to chase, I'm suppose to work on myself and let God's guidance do the rest, I also realized that the good quality women don't let you chase for long if they have interest in you as well, I would always put more effort than them and that's not how it was suppose to go down, women are very precious creatures don't get me wrong but men aren't suppose to waste their time and energy to the extend that they do (myself included) I've learned to balance it out.

[NathanDavis]

lmfao... one of the stupid-est things I've heard

"only a man can love and expect nothing in return"

said by the same idiots who think that just because they spend 40 dollars at a date, now they're entitled to sex... and whine like a kid when she just didn't feel like it...

[Drewtate]

$40 on a date. Maybe in 2001

[NathanDavis]

I said 40... because most of the posts I do see here, whining about dates... they usually mention something between 20 and 50 dollars...

but, that's G@G manchild mentality for you... right?

[SolsticeSnow]

How odd.

Women are often 'loved' for their bodies, for sex, for caretaking behaviours.

Most adult love is conditional.
I mean if he smacks you over the head then that damn well better be a condition to walk away.

I can assure you some men certainly do not "just want peace". Men are not a homogeneous entity. They are all different. And this woe is me 'she only wants my money' does men a disservice the same as women who think all men only want sex.

Both sexs need to learn to value eachother more. Nothing more off putting than people who attract crappy people and blame whole sexs for their bad taste.

But all love is conditional. So long as the condition is - you like thrm for who they are, then, good.

[IslaTheWitch]

Yes, I love unconditionally my kids. It's a fact I wouldn't dare to argue with.

But my love for my kids was on the early stage forced on me by hormones, as it's the only way for a kid to survive, if parents care.

But my love for my partner was a pure emotion which was initiated and kept alive by both of us. It was the real unconditional love, because no other mechanism, than pure attraction and will took place in this process.

I disagree. I know I can unconditionally love my man.

[MyOwnMan2]

Do you love your kids unconditionally enough to not love them?

[IslaTheWitch]

@MyOwnMan2 give a reason. Why should I not love them?

[MyOwnMan2]

If you truly loved them unconditionally you would allow them to do whatever they wanted, even if it made you hate them

[IslaTheWitch]

@MyOwnMan2 They do whatever they want lol
they are adults, who spend long hours pestering their old mother by phone or video chats.

[MyOwnMan2]

Ok is your love truly unconditional? Could they kill someone? Light a house on fire full of children? I mean cmon.

[IslaTheWitch]

@MyOwnMan2 I love them for them, not for their actions. Will I support any act against the law or the well-being of other people? No. But I WILL still love them. Even if they do something utterly wrong. Also because it means I'm partially responsible. I fucked up something really bad during the upbringing process.

[MyOwnMan2]

So you love them but you won't back them up

[IslaTheWitch]

@MyOwnMan2 They are adults, they act on their own account. I can't live their lives for them. It would be wrong and not fair

[MyOwnMan2]

So what do you mean by love unconditionally because it doesn't sound like you're too invested

[IslaTheWitch]

@MyOwnMan2 unconditional love means exactly what it means. I don't set conditions for my kids, which they have to meet to be loved. Period.

I also respect them as fellow human beings and don't plan to interfere in their lives. They are independent and able to predict and bear the consequences of their decisions. If they ask, I will do everything in my power to help. But only then. If they want to struggle on their own, it's their right.

[MyOwnMan2]

So in other words you just believe they're fundamentally decent humans. You don't love them unconditionally, you have faith in them. But I wouldn't say you love them at all judging by what you'd do if they got arrested.

[IslaTheWitch]

@MyOwnMan2 Do you really think that decent human beings cannot bear the consequences of their actions? It would be degrading for them if I tried to meddle in their affairs if they didn't ask for that. And I know, in such situations, they wouldn't.

So love means a strong emotional connection, enhanced by faith, acceptance and trust built during the years we spent together.

However, you see, love (conditional or not) doesn't change my perception. Because I know I love them, and they don't have to beg for it, it's given.

[MyOwnMan2]

You don't love them though. Love is a union of two souls. You become ONE being with them and you can NEVER separate yourself again. If you disagree, you have never experienced love. Likely because your version of love is instinctive, based on motherly instincts like caring for babies, and not based on any deeper reasoning that reveals to you how similar another being is to yourself.

You have faith in your children. That's very different than love.

[IslaTheWitch]

@MyOwnMan2 I agree to disagree :D

[MyOwnMan2]

Of course you agree. I'd never agree with you on anything.

[MyOwnMan2]

Take a dog for exampke... the only creature that loves like humans love. Because they evolved out of pack animals. They're basically humans in the form of an animal.
DOGS become OBSESSED (what love is) with their owner. If you give a dog away you've owned for awhile, it will NEVER forget you and it will ALWAYS treat you like its real owner.
That's love. It's based on reasoning.

[HappyWoman34]

I respectfully disagree. I’ve loved rich men and poor men.

[Drewtate]

Being ploughed by a broke guy in your youth isn't the same

[HappyWoman34]

Why does everything centre around sex? No, I’ve had a long distance relationship with a broke guy.

[Drewtate]

... had...

[HappyWoman34]

Still having and we’ve yet to have sex.

[HappyWoman34]

See? Not everything is all about sex.

[KrakenAttackin]

Women have no idea the depth of love men have. A females love is as shallow as the kiddie pool by comparison.

[HappyWoman34]

@KrakenAttackin that’s really cynical, not to mention a generalisation.

[KrakenAttackin]

@happywoman34. It's not in your DNA to genuinely love one man.

[HappyWoman34]

@KrakenAttackin rubbish.

[HappyWoman34]

It’s just not in my DNA to love, or marry a dickhead.

[KrakenAttackin]

@happywoman34. Every man turns into a "dick head" when she loses interest in him and needs to project her way out of the relationship. This is the same way every man becomes "abusive" when she wants to jettison him and divorce take him.

[HappyWoman34]

@KrakenAttackin I’m currently in my third real relationship with a man. I admit I kept choosing the wrong types of men in the past, many a time. SOME women and SOME men only love pleasure, money and themselves. Replacing you with a newer model. Not all and not even most people think or feel this way. I know I don’t.

[HappyWoman34]

What’s caused this cynicism in you? You can tell me it’s none of my business and I won’t ask again, if you wish. I’m genuinely curious though.

[KrakenAttackin]

@happywoman34. I have seen far too many women sacrifice their boyfriends, husbands, father's, and children, all on the alter of "I'm not happy".

Women love themselves first and above all. No horrific and selfish decisions is above a woman seeking what she thinks she wants.

[HappyWoman34]

@KrakenAttackin I’d say that’s not always true, that you’ve known several women giving the rest of the decent ones a bad rap

[KrakenAttackin]

@happywoman34. Look at the divorce rate and who files for divorce. 80% -90% of the time the wife files for divorce, no matter the effect it will have on her husband or kids... WOMEN are the incredibly selfish gender that thinks whatever might make her happy is also "right", and females can rationalize anything! The effects on children in divorce have been well documented since the 70's, but you women don't give a fuck. Also, you have children out of wedlock, become "heroic" single mothers , again with the huge and known effects on children growing up without fathers. But, you don't care, your "me, me, me" emotions rule everything, and society suffers, your children suffer,... but you don't care.

[HappyWoman34]

@KrakenAttackin another generalisation.

[Drewtate]

Generally speaking on can only generalise generally on most general subjects.

[mkkkkitan]

Men have an upper hand on materialistic things but money could never buy loyalty and emotional understanding ( which most men lack ). So in the end , women who do love unconditionally will choose a man , not for his money, but for the way he makes her feel and not for what he can buy. In short, women will only love the right man unconditionally.

[Archferret]

But the real problem is :

Everyone is looking for unconditional love carrying a bag full of conditions.

coz love don't pay the Bills :)

[hardboiledink]

Women LEAVE men easily, while men don't find women as easily. Women love men BASED ON CONDITIONS of how the man treats her, the things he owns, and his social status. MOSTLY it's about how he emotionally makes a woman feel, AND WOMEN ARE DISLOYAL once a man makes them feel bad a few times, and women will cheat AND it's easier for them to cheat because men line up to be the rebound.

So NO, women don't love men unconditionally and THE ONLY UNCONDITIONAL LOVE MEN GET ARE FROM DOGS AND THEIR MOM. Women are taken care of by men, paid for by men, men will DIE for women. Women WILL NOT die for men

[RolandCuthbert]

That's hilarious. When you are infatuated with a woman who doesn't love you back, you are not loving her unconditionally. Because you just want her to have some sex with you and when you don't get it, you call her a whore, you get angry, you blame her for being alone, etc.

That ain't love.

[Drewtate]

https://youtu.be/jsOnXSuMXfU?si=rMeuqihIMD41n7WK

[Anonymous]

They can, but he has to be exceptionally attractive. A woman has to feel she's getting SOMETHING out of the deal. Some women will overlook these things if he's attractive enough because she feels being with a really attractive man raises her stock. He's like the ultimate accessory. But this is usually reserved for women who are either less attractive or at least feels she's less attractive. Really attractive women aren't f***ing with a deadbeat. They by virtue of thier appearance can demand more than the avg. Woman.

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely, positively, 100%, correct. Women don't love as deep or faithfully as men do, by any standard.

GAG women will come back with blah, blah, blah,... but they are talking about the Chad Thundercock's who have blown their backs out, not regular, good men.

[RavVid]

Men love women; women love children; children love pets is the love hierarchy.

In reality adult love is transactional but women are far more conditional then men. A woman's requirements are going to be five (5) closely written foolscap pages whilst a man's fits on a flip card.
1. Do I get hard over her 2. Is she nice to me most of the time 3. Is she appreciative of what I do for her

[Billlewis]

Because nature doesn't work that way. The process of natural selection wouldn't be viable if men had unlimited access to physical intimacy with any woman they wanted.

[nastyb]

what do you mean men get nothing in return?

if men really got nothing in return, they wouldn't be trying to get the youngest , hottest women possible.

[slatyb]

I don't think there's such a thing as "unconditional love" in the sense that someone will stay no matter what. My wife shows her love every day but I could definitely behave in a way that would make her leave.

[Exterminatore]

100% true. Men’s love is sacrificial. Women’s love is more akin to admiration. They have unconditional love for their children but not the father of their children or husband or boyfriend.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Women can love men very deeply and unconditionally.

I know because I had loved someone like that in the past.

[KrakenAttackin]

@lafemmefatale_1. That's LUST and has no relation to LOVE.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@KrakenAttackin Stop telling me what I did or didn’t feel.

Lust doesn’t last for 4 years.

I loved him and if any woman ever loved you the way I loved him, you’d knew that’s the love and not the lust.

I’ve only loved once. So spread your negativity somewhere else.

There’s not your noses’s place in my business.

[KrakenAttackin]

@lafemmefatale_1. You loved him for his status and potential to provide resources. He loved you for who you were, not just what you could do for him.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@KrakenAttackin What status are you talking about? He didn’t have any money and he didn’t have anything. His position was very low at that time and I made 10 times more than he did!

Don’t mistake me with the women you’ve been with. I don’t have time for this. I am enjoying walking in the park. Bye.

[KrakenAttackin]

So he was very hot.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@KrakenAttackin Instead of blaming strangers for what you have no idea, admit to yourself that YOU made a wrong choice in the past and move on…

You see, I don’t regret getting with the man I was with. I loved him and he loved me. No regrets whatsoever.

It’s you projecting your negative experiences on strangers online.

[KrakenAttackin]

@lafemmefatale_1. I have seen too many women play too many games with the lives of men. Your own posts tell me you are a player and a cock tease.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@KrakenAttackin Yeah, call me a player if you want, I still loved and stayed true and loyal to someone I loved better than your ex did obviously. I am sure when you were choosing you weren’t choosing a cock tease or a player, did she end up being one though? So, maybe you make a mistake of judging people superficially.

Don’t worry, I am sure you can still be the pussy tease too, but ain’t nobody’s calling you out on that.

[RealMarek]

It depends on the woman. My relationship is going stronger than ever even though I’ve gone through prolonged unemployment and working without pay to start up businesses.

[JacobJordan]

generally speaking yeah. my wife is not one of those women though. she loved me when I had money she loved me when i had almost no money. she loved me when I was absurdly busy with work and she loves me still.

[LazerBean]

Very untrue. I see many idiots of both genders who choose to love people who would have made the Earth better by not being born.

[cjtron]

my godsh, this so much!! LOL Who cares about gender, its about the individual actually

[DextroShade]

This is 100% true, there are always conditions on a woman's love. I guarantee none of the women who voted no would be willing to date a kind, handsome, and charming homeless man.

[Lionman95]

I don´t think guys love women unconditionally. The only people that love unconditionally are parents.

[cjtron]

Speak for yourself Lionman, some of us do, maybe not you

[Anonymous]

You must have beauty according to men. You must be will to do anything in bed according to men. You must not have male friends according to men. You must not have your own opinions according to men.

[friendofthefallen]

Disagree. My ex never loved me unconditionally.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Probably "true" for some yet definitely "untrue" for others.

[syncheart]

I've never seen anyone love unconditionally. Personally I've been dropped by people, without doing anything to deserve it!

[888theGreat]

Women put up with more than men do. To the point women are stupid. They even stay with guys that beat the crap out of them on a weekly basis.

[KrakenAttackin]

@888thegreat. That is bullshit of the first magnitude. Women put up with Chad Thundercock abusing her, that's it.

[WheelerOfSeeds1]

I think women are more drawn to these men, but are they less capable of love? No.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think both can love unconditionally.

[Socaljp]

False because my girlfriend is proof that women can and do.

[Cheerfull009]

No money, no honey, nothing is free in this world

[Anonymous]

Mens conditions for loving a woman are totally different... but that doesn't mean his love is unconditional!

[Apple1996]

Anyone can be loved unconditionally

[MemeSupreme]

gotta say that's pretty dumb there buckaroo

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I disagree

[Lonen]

Sadly that sounds a lot like today's day and age

[ThrillSeeker01]

I think everyone can do it.

[boobliker]

I think thats the other way round

[Anonymous]

Love don't pay the Bills

[SoJust]

Nope disagre