Why do I feel like a woman but not think like one?

[hollubollu95]

I'm a girl. I love being a girl and wouldn't change it to be a man. Because... y'all are dangly and just yuck...

However I noticed my emotions and the way I reason is as of a man and not a woman which is really scary. Men point I out and so do women. I'm not masculine by any means. In fact I've been told I'm overly feminine.

What does this mean

[caring__1]

We all lie on a continuum between different extremes in all facets of our being. No two people are alike. Just because you might have traits that may be more common in men, that doesn't mean other women don't also possess those traits, and that doesn't mean you are masculine or wish to be masculine. Does everyone who has brown hair have the same shade of brown hair?

You are who you are. Don't be hard on yourself for being who you are. There's nothing wrong with who you are. Just learn your true assets and discover how to enhance them. Our society works very hard to convince people they should fit certain molds. This only creates a society of people who feel defective, as no one can ever actually become that ideal. The ultimate ideal would be to encourage people to accept themselves as they are and feel good about their uniqueness. Would you truly prefer we were nothing but clones, and you couldn't tell one person from another? Savor how you are special, for that is what makes you you.

[JPresidente]

It's certainly possible that when your brain was developing in the womb that you got more of a male brain type than female. It may be rare but if men can look like women in appearance and vice versa, why would it not be possible for things on the inside to develop that way? I'm sure you'll continue to have normal womanly functions for the rest of your life but it will probably mean that should you pursue men, there will different types that appeal to you and they to you. Your relationship might even well be different than most male/female couples.

[PrettyPriya]

I'm not sure how any of us are going to be able to tell you the answer better than yourself. We cannot tell you why YOU feel a certain way. That is like asking "Why am I sad?". Well, only one that knows that is me.

I can take some guess though. Perhaps you have an easier time relating to guys than you do girls. Maybe you have similar likes that are more guy oriented. I don't really know without more context about who you are.

Perhaps you have an easier time connecting with guys. That is not all that uncommon. These are just a couple of guesses that could explain why you feel like one of the guys more than like one of the girls.

There really isn't anything wrong with that either. Not that I am the same as you, but I have some very close guy friends and find it much easier to talk and connect with them on certain things than it is with my girl friends.

[hollubollu95]

Yeah I do feel more connected to them. But it doesn't just stop there. I'm much smarter and logical than men as well. And when they realise they actually run away. And look horrified so I quiet literally have to suppress it and act clueless.

Men like being around me anyways. We hang out even though we are friends they pay for my trips they buy me food and I never need to spend my money even tho we are just friends.

[PrettyPriya]

That last paragraph is pretty typical of behaviour from a lot of guys. They are trying to do what they think is the gentlemanly thing to do, even if friends.

It could also be that even though you view them as friends, they are trying to make it more than that. You can never be totally sure of the intentions behind these favours.

[hollubollu95]

Intresting.. anyways why are men horrified when they realise I'm smarter than them?

[PrettyPriya]

They could view that as competition or have insecurities about a smart woman.

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds like you just have a personality.

[hollubollu95]

LMAOOOO

[Astarlessnightsky]

Does anyone really know what it is to feel like a woman or man or trans...

You only know what it feels like to be you. So don't bother and don't overthink too much.

[hollubollu95]

Uhhh did u just ignore when I said so many young woman have said the SAME thing!!! Only a small portion actually considers u! Soo why you saying "me"

[hollubollu95]

Sorry wrong thread. And your right thank you

[Guy13]

If your self assessment is accurate then do not change ‼️ And if you’ve managed to stay celibate then you are the ☝️ out of million.

[hollubollu95]

Yup I'm a virgin. Lately I've been attractin successful assholes who want me to trade my V card for a lifestyle.

Usually even if they're successful they don't care for a while if we sleep together. But not what I've been attracting lately which sucks. But then again These new guys are actually from online dating so probably why.

But anyways what made you say this?

[Guy13]

Firstly, it is how I feel. A feminine woman with a “man’s mind” is attractive. Virginity says Good Judgment. All guys want that kind of wife and mother of children.

Yeah, lots of successful guys can smell Good. All want to possess; some destroy; some own till death.

[hollubollu95]

Wait really successful guys can smell good girls and want to destroy?

[Guy13]

Some successful guys are not good. The more you hang around that crowd, the more you will see how dirty money is or can be.

Do not get mesmerized by their successes. There are costs and what a guy is willing to sacrifice for that success says much more than signs or attained goal.

[hollubollu95]

Your right I love this advice can u please message me I need to ask u something

[Surely]

Without knowing you personally. I would say that you have common sense and reasoning skills.
I pride myself on thinking beyond the moment and weighing the pros and cons before making a decision. Most people only live in the present and not thinking about the future!

[Berethor]

You can't really change to a man anyway, and nothing wrong with being logical like men.

[hollubollu95]

It scares men

[hollubollu95]

They've told me they don't like it

[Berethor]

Don't scares me, if you really think like a man then you might be a genius, not average.

qz.com/.../men-are-both-dumber-and-smarter-than-women

[Anonymous]

That's because you are a troll

[hollubollu95]

Ok pervert.