Girls, why do you put up your "shield" with some guys while with others you dont?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed that girls put up their "shield" towards me on site as if I'm gonna to approach

With others there more open

It's just something I've noticed

[TsmGai]

Most women assume that the average and below average man is irresistibly attracted to them. Like, deadass, you can't even look in the same direction as these narcissistic bimbos without them mistaking that for interest. I find this especially annoying since I'm not even interested in most women. I usually talk to them when I need to, like when they're blocking my way. Plenty of women have gotten angry at me for not wanting to talk to them tho.

I witnessed a performance during karaoke night at a bar. A couple sat right between me and the performers. When I turned to the performers, I noticed the woman very auspiciously rubbing her man's lap and back. But every time I faced them, I moved my head since the couple was in my direct line of sight. She just kept doing it tho.

These chicks have no self esteem. Even if they have good company, they need constant affirmation. They're just not into you but expect the opposite based on their perceived notions of your value. Don't worry about these bitches. Focus on yourself.

[Guy13]

That's totally a gut thing and we guys are the same way with personal and oral interactions.

[Sisters_Of_Time]

Or! We already know the guy or know what to expect from the guy while you may still be a stranger! Or! Your approach sucked!

[KathrynTaylor]

I do if I’m not attracted to or I don’t like the guy.

[Asker]

So then why do some. girla. not put up their guard even if they don't intent anything sexual or romantic with some guys?

[KathrynTaylor]

They either don’t know how to assert boundaries and don’t want to be unkind (most likely); or they enjoy flirting and leading the men on for their egos.