Guys, would you feel disrespected if you were under the belief a girl you know had a crush on you but one day she told you another guy is handsome?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Not likely. Because if I truly felt she had a crush on me, and felt the same I'd be doing something about it.

But if you're asking if I thought she had a "passing interest" in me and wasn't showing anything sustained interest. Then no I wouldn't feel disrespected. I'd just chalk it up to another fickle woman that really didn't know own what she wanted. One things for certain if she did it to make me jealous, she was WAY OFF the mark. Because it would just turn me off. 🙂

[Asker]

Interesting how you assume she’d do it to make you jealous. What if she genuinely meant it when she said the other guy was handsome?

[Opinion Owner]

Experience. Do I assume I'm always right about this stuff? No. But this is the whole for the lack of a better term, "game". Experience tells you when someone has genuine interest in you and when it's all an act. I know how women just like to flirt with no real interest. Women also do and say a lot of things just to see a guys reaction. You get sense pretty quickly whether she's the type of person who is honest about what she says, does, and thinks or not. And when she's not honest some guys will just play the game for giggles till they get bored. Or they'll just tell her to get lost pretty quickly. Me I don't like games. So I'd tell her to get lost pretty quickly.
You ask what I'd do if I determined she meant it. That's easy i would be flat done with her. If women have any interest in you they don't tell you about how other men are handsome. That's common sense.

[Asker]

Good answer

[Guy13]

Nope because I do not wait around so I would move on it.

[Danny_dan92]

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