Will losing some weight help me?

[Joey999]

there's this girl I like and I want to ask her out but I'm kinda not feeling too confident. I've been turned down by 4 other girls over the course of 3 years and that has kind of shaken my belief in myself. My relationships with girls are usually pretty good with most of my friends being female, but whenever I ask a girl out I always get friendzoned.

As of now, I am 5'10 and 83 kg ( around 180 pounds I guess ).

Will shedding the weight help me?

[whorable]

if that’s you in your pfp, no you’re completely fine on the weight side. maybe it’s the way your asking? or the time/place.. or maybe you just wait 2 long and don’t show signs you like them in the beginning and they start seeing you as a “ brother”. people have preferences which is okay so even if you were over weight you’ll find someone who loves you no matter what you look like.

[NotTacocaT6969]

A girl who likes you for real will like you regardless of your weight.


Losing weight might help you with your own confidence. But do it for you if you want to do it, not for the girls.

[Anonymous]

They see you as a friend because of most your friends are girls. I would recommend having guys be the biggest majority of your friends. I would also start lifting weights at your age which I did. If you develop a Good Physic the women who ignored you will start to pay attention to you.

[Iron_Man]

That’s light enough 180, don’t worry about it

[Nikki1989]

You are at a good weight now. I wouldn't worry too much about that.

[WhitneySnow]

It might make you feel more confident

[In_Trance]

Probably not