Girls when you have to speak with a guy that's attractive vs Unattractive, how do you normally behave?

[Anonymous]

If you had to be honest

[inhua]

attractive guy - "hey you look sexy. can I touch those abs?" *smiles and twirls her hair*

unattractive guy - "eww... fuck off you creep or I'll call the cops!" *screams and vomits*

[Asker]

But if the unattractive guy is already self aware that he's not well liked SO therefore is very serious when talking to "said" girl

No giggles, laughs, smirks

Just outright aerious

[Anonymous]

For me it’s the same way with both. I’m usually straight to the point. The only difference would be if they asked for my social media or number, one I would give it to , the other, I would not.

[Asker]

Most girls would be very suspicious of me if we had to interact & always be on guard but eventually they drop theirs once they see that I never flirt or bother speaking with them

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. Really that’s the key to get any girl to be comfortable with you. Make her feel as though her safety will not be compromised.

[Asker]

Something else I've noticed

They always seem to assume I want sex from them right from the get go... they never assume I want anything platonic or that I give off platonic vibes at all

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, most women who are use to getting hit on usually have this attitude towards any guy that approaches them. If I were you the best way to change their way of thinking towards you is to create some distance/aloofness between the two of you.

[Christsdisciple15]

I would behave mostly the same but maybe I’d be a little more shy around someone I’m attracted to. I’m already quite shy and reserved already so it would be hard to distinguish

[Asker]

Describe the differences between being shy towards an attractive/unattractive guy if you can?

Because In my cases many gals would avert eye contact if we had to speak to each other or lower their heads down BUT with either a frown or a smirk

[Christsdisciple15]

maybe with the attractive guy in some cases I’d be trying to hide a smile but usually it’s pretty indistinguishable, a lot of girls me included hardly flinch or react around people we’re attracted to

[Asker]

& with the unattractive guy? Be honest

[Christsdisciple15]

I would be completely normal? I don’t treat people who I find unattractive any better or worse…

[CoolCatMar1]

The same way for both

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

You don’t get more nervous with an attractive guy

[CoolCatMar1]

@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS nope

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

I get nervous when talking to hot girls

[CoolCatMar1]

@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS in real life?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Yeah but not online

[Asker]

🤔

I've noticed that most girls who I have to talk to either squint their eyes/blink uncontrollably & refuse to give eye contact towards me

[sarahstar13]

@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS I have a bit of social anxiety, so a group of people in general I get nervous going up and talking to.