Like can you explain to me the trend of women now who film themselves at the gym ready to put it all out on TikTok anyway for the whole world to see... Wearing skin tight anus shorts, meanwhile f**ing a barbell - and then get surprised when men look at them?
Is this the summon of victimhood nowadays, that if somebody looks at you they are somehow to be though of as creeps? Are men who go to the gym supposed to walk around like Sandra Bullock in Bird Box to be viewed favorably when women wear stuff like that which serves no purpose but to attract attention anyway?
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I think this is more about women reverse boasting about how they are so hot that men just have to stare.
Of course they can't say that directly nowadays so they have to complain at men objectifying their sexualization of themselves.
Watch this video on academic research into the topic. It goes for 1 hr 17 m but if you watch only the first 5 min then you are ahead.https://www.youtube.com/embed/NayII1poLcI
It is basically that with economic inequality these girls will use the power of female beauty to level up the field for themselves. It doesn't directly say so but economic inequality is on individual basis and it is not hard to feel economic inequality in a winner take all economy. Invent Facebook and you are a billionaire.
At the end of the day, a girl putting in hours at the gym, can get her a pay rate the rest of us can only dream of if she achieves marriage with a wealthy guy from her beauty.
But female competition has to be done in a non-threatening way to other females. As Dr Blake says it is a vicious struggle but very nice on the surface. So men have to be blamed & shamed for staring. Doesn't get more complicated than that.
So many girls have told me, that girls are so competitive that it is hard to have female friendships, that perhaps I have been made more aware of this.
It is funny watching girls have straight up fights on who is nicest/most charming and the dumbfounded look on a guys face afterwards. He is with his girlfriend and she and another girl compete on who is nicest and most charming. Not that the other girl wanted him. His reactions were just the scorecard and he gets a lot of shit from the girlfriend afterwards because she is very very angry indeed. He is like 'but I thought you were friends' and looks baffled. .
Chris Williamson is doing a few 'Modern Wisdom' videos where female academics explain girls to us. I recommend them. There is quite a good one on female friendships.
He is an amazing guy for sure. A complete 3rd person perspective without getting personal not even once. That difficult to be.
@The_Shadow_Dweller He does do a good job. I think bio-ethics does explain a lot about us. It is fairly obvious that the more women a man has sex with increases the number of children he produces but the reverse does not apply to women. Instead a man with a lot of resources is best. Hypergamy has always been there.
Now dating apps increases the hunting range for women, the results are fairly predictable.