Whatdo you think of a guy who gets very irritated & anxious when around woman?

[Anonymous]

NOT shy but rather angered & anxious & tries to stay away completely?

[HelpMe06]

Is there an incident that has happened with a woman in your past that has made you feel this way? If you can find out when these feelings towards woman first started you might be able to find the cause.

I would be untrusting of someone like this, or even uncomfortable being around them.

[Asker]

YES

When I was 17 I was encouraged to seek anger management classes by a family member & I did...

I was assigned a counselor (a few woman) who were switched & I'll just right to the chase

They didn't like me from the start

They would mention comments about my "size" & whether or not I'm endowed or not & if I'm good in bed or not

They would make quick but snarky remarks about my appearance & if I'm "well equipped"

These particular counselors did this for 12-13 months

I saw one of them a few years after the terrible anger management classes were set & done & that particular counselor still didn't stop yapping about my appearance or "size"

[petitedollbabee]

I would think he has some trauma/PTSD or unresolved issues related to women.

[Guy13]

He isuncomfortable and threatened by women for some reason.

[BrightBubblyKat]

Scares me off after a few years.

[Asker]

Huh? Could you elaborate?

[BrightBubblyKat]

Well, if I share my feelings and offer to share everything else with a man, that’s a big deal. If he’s going to get nasty every time I try to get close to him or be intimate, I’m going to give up. He doesn’t like women or else at least I’d take it as a firm no forever and that I turn him off. I wouldn’t be angry. Everyone has the right to choose and should choose someone who makes them happy. I’m sure I can’t make everyone I’m going to fancy happy. Just like not all the guys fancying me could make me happy. So I’d cut the friendship after 3-4 tries, then move on. If the guy came back and I really cared about him but didn’t really trust him, I’d offer friendship.

[BrightBubblyKat]

Tbh, how’s he going to function in a relationship with me or anyone else if he hates women? Sex will be selfish and so will everything else he does.

[Asker]

I've had terrible experiences with woman when I was 17 years old

I got a lot of flack from a few when I attended anger management classes as their pupil or student

These particular counselors almost constantly negged my appearance/"size"/"stamina" in those "sexual" terms

I don't know why?

[BrightBubblyKat]

Oh gee I’m sorry. Maybe you need a psychologist to discuss your issues with? You don’t deserve to suffer.