I've noticed a weird pattern while visiting my cousin in the US last week. I came back to my country in Europe two days ago. I am 19yo male and my cousin is 17 currently. During my stay in the US I noticed some weird type of behaviour from her towards me. I don't remember every single word she said or what she did exactly , but I remember like half of the stuff so lemme break it down below (couple of examples)
The most common thing in her behaviour was that she was constantly comparing me to her boyfriend (her boyfriend was out of town for some family emergency for like 2 months) , she was telling me how our voices sound the same , how we look-alike and how similar we both behave. Once when she was drunk and we were heading home after the party she was calling me by his name. every time when she was consuming alcohol , she was calling me by his name , even if I was telling her that I am not her boyfriend's name she would still do it after a few minutes and her reasoning was ,, because you guys are the same''
Another example is that when we were in the parking lot she literally grabbed my cheek , looked at me and said ,, Would you date me if I wasn't your cousin?''.
The next day I asked her why everyone assume that I am your boyfriend or something and she responded ''cause your hot''
The last thing that I can think about right now reffering to this whole situation is the fact that the last day when I was staying in their house , she was sleeping in my bed , like she was sad that I was leaving or smthg. It was 1pm , I was suppose to leave her home at 4 o'clock and she literally went to the room I was staying at that time and started sleeping in the same bed I was sleeping, half naked for a couple of hours nearby my clothes , charger , my pillow etc.
What do you guys think about those examples? I personally find it kinda strange so I want to know what other's people opinion about it is.
