Hey, m18 there that likes f18. We met on party one year ago. Unfortunately she had a boyfriend at that time. We were clubing almost always together for 3 months. We stopped talking and nothing happened until October last year. She asked me if I would maybe like to dance with her on prom (gotta consider that it was last week of time to decide with who your gonna dance). Of course I agreed (probably she broke up with her boyfriend, otherwise she wouldn't ask me). After few dancing lessons it seemed like after every lesson she became more and more comfortable and gave me like few signs that she might be interested in me (we had like few eye contacts of few seconds when I almost always broke eye contact first, she's mostly dressing really hot, for example she wears ripped skinny jeans and short crop top, she smiles a lot at me (but I don't know if that's just her "nature"), sometimes it seems like she just can't look me in the eyes and look elsewere, sometimes she makes a lot of mistakes during dancing, maybe those are just mistakes or maybe she's nervous around me. I have few more examples but those are a few of them). I texted her if she would like to go out with me sometime. I texted her at like 10 pm and decided to delete that chat in the morning. I'm 100% sure that she saw a message, because you can half swipe a message and read it without other person knowing. Also who doesn't look on their phone for so many hours? After that we had new dancing lessons and it seemed maybe like her behaviour towards me escalated. She had the hottest outfit ever, or for example when dance teacher was talking, us two still held eachothers hands when most of other guys and girls stopped holding eachother, and much more. Oh, and also after that text, next week she finally started saying hi to me on school halls, because before that text, she didn't even greet me. I want to ask her out in person after next dancing lessons that are gonna be soon, should I do it or just forget about it?
Is she playing hard to get or just not interested?
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Why did you delete the chat that you asked her out with?
That was a bad move.
You can't just throw something like that out there, then take it back because she didn't respond right away. It shows insecurity.
Say what you wanna say and commit to it. Be a man.
I'm not saying you fucked it up, but don't do that shit again
Yeah I agree, honestly I don't know why I did that. I will , my plan was basically to ask her out in person and than I just texted her. It was a bad move, like you just said. You think it would be good choice to do it again than but in person?
Lol, it's all good man it happens.
Definently ask her out again, and act like you won't take no for an answer. Yeah, in person would be better
Actually, you can totally redeem yourself.
When you see her again you can say, "I actually asked you over chat because I couldn't wait anymore, but I realized I should probably ask you in person"
She'll think you're just adorable
Yeah thanks, that's a great idea. I will wait to ask her after our next lessons, because I don't want to ask her in front of others in school hall or somewhere else. Not because I would be shy, but I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable in that situation.
No, I totally get that. That's smart. Right on 👍
Shoot your shot. Ask her out in person.