Why are women often so surprised when a man expresses that he's encountered a female narcissist?

[Anonymous]

[CreatingWonders]

I was in a relationship with a female narcissist, when I spoke out about what she did to me women said I deserved it.


I didn’t deserve anything she did to me I didn’t deserve to be physically and mentally abused.


She’s still harassing me now 9 months since I dumped her, even though I’m free and happy that I dumped her I’m still very much on edge as she won’t go away.


Female narcissists are far worse than male ones from my experience anyway.


My father was a narcissist and he beat the shit out of me till I was 13 then it went to mental abuse but the one thing with him is he never tried to stab me like she did I could hide from him I couldn’t her so in my opinion I’d say women are worse.

[ManOnFire]

They are just pretending to be surprised. They know that narcissistic women exist, but they want to act like it hardly happens.

[boggboss]

Because they haven't come across it