Ladies, ladies , ladies, the hypocrisy, and insecurities have to stop. I've noticed a lot of women can harrass, bully, stalk, label a man as gay and a narcissist just because he is not attracted to her. A man is not obligated to like you. Comprehend social cues. Signs he doesn't like you:
1. He stops responding 2. He takes does to respond 3. He's mean to you because you're not accepting his actions that demonstrate lack of interest, so he's tired of sparing your feelings 4. You have to stalk him to find out why he hasn't reached out 5. He went on one date with you and you haven't heard from him. 6. He told you he ONLY wants a situationship/friends with benefits with you. Meaning you are not good enough to take home to mom or bring around his friends. You're embarrassing the way you look, act, your low level of education, and your low standards and lack of self-respect.
Why do so many women act like men are OBLIGATED to like them? Then when the man doesn't they label they as narcissist. Ladies when will this stop?
It stops when they learn. If a guy "likes me" like full on flirting, head over heels and we don't know each other, I don't trust him or his judgement.
It's not that I like the chase, but if he treats me like any other person and doesn't kiss up, I can take him seriously. You get to see him for who he actually is. And his respect and affection, I have to earn that. And that makes more sense to me. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft
Today’s modern day girl isn’t worth it for me to pursue or spend $1 on. Does that make me look cheap? Maybe yeah but I don’t care. Women have created this superficial narcissistic daddy issues loop hole where date guys for fun to get free stuff and then say “I’ll let you know” even after a date that went genuinely well. My mom invited 10 of her friends yesterday and each woman was like I don’t know what’s wrong with girls today but they are lazy, they only care about this life, having the wrong friends around them, high list of demands. I would rather die then give a girl a chance were her bat shit crazy bipolar personality like I owe her something, men don’t owe women shit, guys don’t owe girls shit.
I recently had a young lady at the bar say that I was really cute but I needed to show some more energy to get somewhere with her, she was very drunk and I was respectful and responding but not engaged with her at all as I was at the end of the bar but with some other friends.
I just thought it was interesting the automatic implication that that's what a male is seeking. She was a pretty girl and she clearly knew that, that behavior I found off-putting but I'm guessing in the past it's worked for her and the guy just does whatever to try to get laid.
This is a isolated anecdote but I thought it was interesting.
If this is really something that some women do, then I agree that it’s ridiculous. There are men that do the same thing and people are too quick to give unqualified, unprofessional opinions of who’s a narcissist or a sociopath. Just because they say or do something the other person doesn’t like.
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Anonymous
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women in the west were brought up in a gynocentric social order that combines both feminism and traditionalism
feminism in the which they are simultaneously equals to men whilst also being victims of the "patriarchy" apparently according to feminist theory
and traditionalism in which they should receive chivalrous privileges
men in the west were more or less brought up under the same gynocentric social order whereas they must be selfless and be willing to sacrifice even their own lives for the betterment of women. standing for themselves or their principles is seen as an act of defiance that needs correcting apparently
Well, which western you mean? Because my experience in the west is entirely different than yours. I see very few actual militant feminists in my surroundings. What I see is a mild feminist ambiance, which in fact is often just humanism and when someone quotes patriarchy, man or woman, it's a bit like an open secret and a pun at the same time. Chivalry traditions or culture of sacrifice doesn't exist here either, except for the few die hard catholics maybe, there aren't many, and they are really out of sync with the landscape. There is no sacrifice or alienation of men in relationships I can see. There are people having normal relations, they get together, it works or it doesn't, no big fuss, no mass hysteria.
@Maybe_Maybe_not feminism is infested everywhere in pop culture, entertainment, academics and mainstream media. social media censors anything that criticizes feminism. those who aren't censored are on a terrorist watchlist
only in small ethnic communities does true traditionalism still exist. the benefits of feminism and traditionalism combined is too much for western women to not want to take advantage of rather than stay consistent in one ideology
this election cycle has shown there is a gender divide. mostly men for Trump and mostly women for Harris. hostility has been ramping up significantly, families and friendships are being torn apart, relationships and marriages included. this isn't normal at all
Western women spend their entire lives being told that they're perfect the way they are and that the world needs to make space for them. If they can't fit into society, it's because society needs to get it's act together.
As ridiculous as that sounds, it really IS how they've been raised to think.
Oh my, do you see the girl in the comments upset? Lol, she's the prime example of the type of woman I'm describing in my post. Since I'm a woman, she expects me to agree with her poor behavior. No way, she needs to grow up
@Nikki1989 dont come here talking shit just because your mom sniffed nail polish while pregnant with you. You're acting just like the women I describe in the post, lol. Never fails brain rot disease, I see..
@ProbablyClueless I think it's not a gender issue, what can be seen as an "acceptance signaling virus", men are also indoctrinated into this, there is such a thing as dudes who have chemicals in their water.🐸 Some "men" also blame society for not "fitting in."
@Nikki1989 The asker sounds like someone who recently used @dreamlife7 account, if so then I've seen enough of her posts that were made the way women post. Even this very question sounds like it was written by a woman. So, you got to be the clueless one here.
@carolinagirl5 I think it will stop only when men prove that they're able to resist pussy itself. As long as women think men can't help spreading seed, women will use their feminine bodies as a power over men. Men have to stop chasing pleasure, I think that's the only effective way if you really want to stop women from feeling like men can be manipulated into having relationships.
@chronicTDS right I'm clearly a woman. I always ask questions about behaviors of both men and woman. Men seem to take it well but when u call out the women they get offended because they know they act like this lol 😆. But when I posted about men Nikki was all on my post saying men are trash and hypocrites. I removed her comment
@ChronicTDS CarolinaGirl5 is OBVIOUSLY an incel. Can you not read people? I recognize an incel when i see one. They way he speaks to women here is immature as fuck and it's the type of stuff only incels would say. He keeps removing comments which further confirms everything.
@ChronicTDS I think you are right that it is Dreamlife7. As soon as I read this question, I was like it has to be her.. up to her regular trolling pretending to be a hot girl who is better than everyone, when she can't even get a man LOL.
@PeachyPie93 didn't that dreamlife also ask nearly the exact same question that also got promoted to the home page the same way?
On a side note judging by the pictures dreamlife was posting, she wasn't bad looking, but obviously being "hot" doesn't imply being able to keep a man when the attitude is nasty.
I think the only reason a woman would be posting these questions is the same as the majority of all the other content on here that isn't just admins trying to promote traffick: coping with whatever bullshit goes on in their life.
She's not "trolling" because I came to define trolling as what my current account is about, funny shit. What is usually mislabeled as "trolling" is either perverted retards posting their fetishes or simply normal but disagreeable opinions.
The dictionary definition trolling, "rage baiting" still requires something funny, and no amount of questions like this one will ever become funny. If anyone "trolls" without being funny, like digital rioting, they are beyond retarded and more suitable to be called "digital BLM protesters" rather than "trolls". So no, she is not "trolling."
@Gym_Bro Yes she did, her dumbass questions always get promoted.. and she is always posting questions like these against girls, as if she isn't also in the same boat. Like she is always saying stuff like "you aren't even married at 30", yet she is in her late 20s and doesn't even have a boyfriend. She's a fucking doughnut lol.
@PeachyPie93 she usually said the same thing to men about not having kids by 30 and she had a point because if you do want kids especially a multitude of them then it's better to do so before you've turned into an old fart and the grandparents died. This question too is based on a true event, ocasionally people get pissy when rejected.
It's something mainstream psychology accepts as a normal fact; she's worried about not getting a husband and kids before turning 30. So worried about it she can't keep the worry to herself. So again, obviously not a man and obviously not "trolling".
@Gym_Bro well I never said she was a man, she is way to pathetic to be a man lol. But she just makes questions to piss off other woman. She has no point and she isn't curious about anything she just likes to talk shit. Plus all her photos she posts are of different insta girls so I also doubt she is even good looking. She is just a sad jealous girl with no life, so she spends her time trying to make friends on here with loser guys who also hate woman.. to try to feel important or that she is different or better lol.
Yes and they label a woman who is mature enough to see both sides of the coin as a "man or incel" behind my account. They me to agree with their poor behavior.
I've been there. I recall instances, where I was told I'm a pink user, although that happened seldom. At the same time were I to call out women's BS for just a tiny once i'll get branded a misogynist. People suck.
Everything you listed is what triggers a woman's hypergamy. She can't help but be attracted to man who does those things. It's literal female nature... sure it's easy to tell them to get over it... but in practice... not so easy
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Anonymous
(36-45)
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Label a man “gay” when he rejects her. That is by far one of the worst hypocrisies modern women have. Especially given women are generally more “woke” nowadays.
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Anonymous
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1 y
Those men are too cocky, they brag around.
Me on the other hand - I always presume that no girl likes me.
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