So my boyfriend is having some work issues & today he made a comment if I can't wait 1-2 days for a response maybe I should walk away. He forgets I waited 2 months for him to get sorted earlier in the year - he's still not sorted out - with barely any communication from him.
See it's frustrating because he's trying to shoulder everything himself - though I am more than able to assist him (it's the way he grew up I think, his mum wasn't educated & dad died young so he had to "be an adult" before his time) - and because of this he's causing excessive strain to himself. Instead of asking for help or taking the help I am offering.
And today I made it clear I WANT to help you. And yet rethinking what he said earlier - about walk if can't wait 2 days for a response when I waited 2 months earlier - it's like would he actually appericate that help or would he just used it and when sort out leave / break up.
Or would it be better to just... walk away. I mean you can't force someone to accept your help and if they don't want it, what is there.
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I think taking help from you not bad option but if he did not to take your help be clam don't breakup with him because in his life there are problem so be with him if you truly love him
No one in this world is perfect think what think are good in him make a list of good and bad think in him
If good thinks are more be with him
He definitely behaved like an asshole considering how much you supported him before. I wouldn't tell you to end it based on one incident, but definitely give him a warning.
See that's the thing. Most women today would've walked away. Barely any communication, not really offering much in the way of income, etc. He will have a good income but when I make a decent amount myself that's irrelevant to me.
Its admirable that you stuck with him despite that, which suggests it wasn't his income you were attracted to.