I'm I wasting my time with this guy?

[Anonymous]

I recently started talking to this guy, and we're both of a similar age and interested in pursuing a serious relationship. We have completely different jobs, but we discovered that we both work remotely, which is fantastic!

However, there's one issue: he's owned his own house for several years and is considering selling it to upgrade to a better place. On the other hand, I'm still living in my mom's spare room, trying to save up after experiencing a few setbacks in life. At this point, the idea of owning a house seems impossible unless I were to win the lottery.

Do you think this difference in our housing situations would be a problem for him when considering dating me?

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure whether this difference in your housing situations would be a problem for him, as everyone has their own unique priorities and values when it comes to relationships. However, it's important to remember that a successful relationship is built on mutual respect, trust, and communication.

If you feel that this difference in your housing situations is causing you to feel insecure or uncomfortable, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with him about your concerns. Let him know how you feel and ask for his perspective on the situation.

Remember to prioritize your own well-being and to be honest with yourself about your own values and priorities in a relationship. If you feel that you are not on the same page with this guy when it comes to your housing situation, it may be worth considering whether this relationship is the right fit for you.

Ultimately, it's important to be with someone who respects and values you for who you are, regardless of your housing situation or any other external factors.

[Anonymous]

I own a house and I'm dating a girl who lives with her parents. Not a big deal
There's no way in hell I'm letting her move in either, so it's not because I hope she can help with the mortgage either lol

[Qinart]

Depending on him and his view.

I wouldn't see the problem in it though would want to talk about it to check the reasons for the situation and if I could understand it

[mb120101]

No you're not wasting your time every guy wants to own a house with a partner. If it was the other way around it would be lame