Hi guys,
so I started talking to this guy through instagram for over a month. I am actually the type of girl who doesn’t go after people… He’s been the one starting the conversations with me during this month of texting.
We decided to meet 3 days ago because he came to the city where I live in for a week. Things went pretty well during the date. I actually feel quite attracted to him😅 Which is never the case… I rarely feel attraction towards people. About 2hrs in, he said he had to go for dinner with his brother (which he ended up doing, like ut wasn’t an excuse to get out of the date).
Now, he’s texting me still everyday BUT NEVER asks to see me. It’s been 3 days, that our texts are boring af. He’s just asking « hey what’s up? » and all the boring uninteresting questions. I don’t understand WHY he does not ask to see me, but bothers to text? At first I thought it was friendzone, but I am thinking that it isn’t?
i also saw he followed a bunch of girls (i’m guessing from tinder) in the city where I live. As if he was planning on dating a bunch while over here. I’m lost. I really think he’s wasting my time or I don't know. Maybe I should stop answering. Maybe he isn’t interested in me I don't know.
During our date, many guys came to ask me out, and he was surprised at how much men were attracted to me. He let me know that it was bothering him so MAYBE it has something to do with my physical appearance or personality.
so I started talking to this guy through instagram for over a month. I am actually the type of girl who doesn’t go after people… He’s been the one starting the conversations with me during this month of texting.
We decided to meet 3 days ago because he came to the city where I live in for a week. Things went pretty well during the date. I actually feel quite attracted to him😅 Which is never the case… I rarely feel attraction towards people. About 2hrs in, he said he had to go for dinner with his brother (which he ended up doing, like ut wasn’t an excuse to get out of the date).
Now, he’s texting me still everyday BUT NEVER asks to see me. It’s been 3 days, that our texts are boring af. He’s just asking « hey what’s up? » and all the boring uninteresting questions. I don’t understand WHY he does not ask to see me, but bothers to text? At first I thought it was friendzone, but I am thinking that it isn’t?
i also saw he followed a bunch of girls (i’m guessing from tinder) in the city where I live. As if he was planning on dating a bunch while over here. I’m lost. I really think he’s wasting my time or I don't know. Maybe I should stop answering. Maybe he isn’t interested in me I don't know.
During our date, many guys came to ask me out, and he was surprised at how much men were attracted to me. He let me know that it was bothering him so MAYBE it has something to do with my physical appearance or personality.
