I feel like I'm wasting my time with her? Am I?

[Anonymous]

I met this girl at my work and we seemed to have a connection right away, flirting and talking a lot, we went to lunch a couple times from work together and were getting along great, I didn't even have to ask for her number she requested it haha, I got her to go on a date with me and we had a good time, last people in the restaurant, we hooked up at the end of the nite and I took her home, but after that it all just stopped we stopped talking pretty much, she got a boy friend and I kinda just accepted it, but now she broke up with her boyfriend and all of a sudden wants to talk to me again, she wants to go to lunch all the time now and seems interested in me again, but she barely texts me like I try to start a convo and she just doesn't go with it and it dies very quickly, when we're together tho we're flirting and stuff. To be honest I like this girl and I feel as if I'm wasting my time with her, or she's just simply using me since she just broke up with her boyfriend

[Zoeyyyyyaaay]

I am seeing 2 situations right now. She may or may not be 'using' you. Since you are in the scenario, you know best what is happening.

Firstly, yes, she is using you. Maybe because she already knows that you like her, after her boyfriend dump her, she comes back to you for comfort. (Knowing that you will accept her)

However, maybe her boyfriend was the protective type. You know some guys just doesn't like it when their girlfriend is close to a guy that she used to go out on a date with. Especially, when she is already in the relationship! So after she breaks up, she can continue to behave 'normally' around you like how both of you used to be.

[lame_name]

i think she is using you, girls are generally pretty good at texting.
i dont know if that wwas just me or what but if i m not interested in someone i just can't be bother texting them

[Klaatu51]

seems she's interested bro... erhaps she's not good in text :-)

[confusedone14]

Get away from this one and yes you are your wasting your time.

[moxygirl11]

I think she just using you