Am I wasting my life on her?

[Anonymous]

So I met this girl irl after a more than a year of talking to each other online. My dumbass bought her more than 10 grand worth of stuff. I paid for her car repair, I paid for her vacation that she had. I even paid for her schooling. And only for her to say to me in person that she doesn’t know if we can be a couple. And she got mad at me for when we held hands even though she said it was okay only for her to get pissed at me for doing so. And since we had this little argument, she ended up going to her brother’s house while i showed up in her country. And she got upset that i was thinking of blocking her because i was crying alone while eating because i was dumb enough to come to a country for a girl who’s left early. And she hasn’t answered my text this morning

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1 y

She’ll probably answer later on. And act like nothing happened. But I’m so pissed that I wasted all this money and I loved her. Only to be treated like sh$t!

[DishLady]

Oh my... My friend's son did the same thing. Fell for a woman who milked him dry (both physically and financially) and bc she was willing to do all the physical stuff he was willing to give her all the financial favors. Smh. Guys need to think more with the head above their shoulders... Sigh.

Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do in this situation other than to head home, reboot and try to find a gal who isn't SO OBVIOUSLY a honey-trapping gold digger.

[Anonymous]

Wow your a huge sucker! You guys kinda do this to yourself though!

Not blaming you just 10 grand never met? Wow my Indian friend wanted that said a flat no to her life saving surgery and 4 years later she messaged me again asking when she should have been dead!

She clearly used you for money people do this! Often druggys worthless people and just lazy people talk other into giving them stuff. Doubt she went to school.

The US government is famous for giving them a comfy life!

[Vevv123]

She sounds like a terrible person with no heart. That’s horrible. At least you came to realize now before you continue to waste your time on her. Think of it as a learning experience, so it won’t happen again.