I feel like I’m wasting my time but I love her?

[Anonymous]

Feels like I’m the only one putting effort she says she really likes me but doesn’t act like it I love her but feel im wasting my time I don’t want to overreact and lose something but I don't know what to do should I just let her do all the contacting now?

[Anonymous]

You should be more attached to your boundaries and standards than a woman, that way you can walk away from relationships when they don’t align with what you look for in a partner. It’s not wrong to want mutual effort, because since you’re willing to do it, you know you aren’t asking too much. Actions speak louder than words, so it doesn’t matter what she says when she’s not showing you. So don’t be so afraid of losing that you stay in a relationship that isn’t working, because ultimately you may rob yourself of meeting the right woman.

[Asker]

Thank you I completely agree with you I’ll let her know how I feel and if it’s not mutual than I will just pull back and focus on myself !

[In_Trance]

Who is her?

[Asker]

A girl I’ve been talking to recently we’re not exclusive but she’s hot and cold

[In_Trance]

Have you told her how you feel? How often?

People aren't mind readers and things don't happen on their own