I feel like im wasting my youth sometimes , im in a serious relationship and love my boyfriend?

[HAlove]

Im in a serious relationship im 22 and my bf is 29 , yes we have fun , he takes me out occasionaly we live together im working and in college. He already grad from college and has his awsome job! we truley love eachother, but sometimes i get mad abd bumbed out because when I go out with him and his friends and his friends wives they always talk about how soo much fun they had , and all the things they did. And in just there sitting quietly with nothing to say , because i haven't done nothing woww im just 22 . Sometimes i just want to cry , but i love my bf and he treats me like a princess soo why am i going to leave him ! I see all my friends posting pics going out and having a good time and im just here with my bf... i dont what to do, i get soo sad

[emorena4u]

awww, girl i know how you feel. i was 18 when i got into a relationship and broke it off when i was 25. it was abusive in all ways, but besides all of that, i felt like i wasn't doing enough! we took cruises every year and that was cool, but it still wasn't enough. when we broke up, i went on solo vacations to dr, costa rica (2xs), and puerto rico (3xs). it was the most freeing feeling ever! It was so good, in fact, that my next relationship, me and my partner will go on trips together (and one little mini trip alone or with our own friends)

how long have you two been together? He is 29, so has had a bit of time to "live" If you aren't already, you guys should travel. do a cruise, a little weekend getaway. you said he takes you out occasionally, but that is not enough. its easy for people to get complacent in relationships. its also easy for people to lose themselves in relationships too.

Don't let your life just be your boyfriend. Have hobbies you do alone, have hobbies you do with friends. having a relationship with yourself, in addition to the one you have with your boyfriend will help with the feelings your having. If your feeling this now, you will def be feeling this later on.

[HAlove]

Yess im thinking about joining a gym , and go out with my friends to waterparks and girls night out , I dont want to have this feeling later on it will kill me inside. I am going to do things besides being sooo focused in my relationship , that way I dont feel in wasting my youth. We been together for 2 years , he had taken me on trips and all that its pretty fun. But when in back to reality I get this feelingv, especially when his friends are around they talk about all the fun ang good moments , and there's times wherevi will feel sad because in young and I also would love to live my life like they did, not getting wasted or going wild. Just having a great time with my girlfriends

[Anonymous]

Why can't you go out and do those things? Unless its having lots of casual sex, you can do anything anyone else is doing if you choose to while still in a serious relationship.

[HAlove]

true! i should expand my thinking , having a bf does.not stop me from being a girl who has friends and can go out like everyone else! im not looking or want that crazy fun not my.style! i love my bf and never in a million years i would leave him just so that i can have sex with randomguys and live the wild life

[AndyWes]

Apparently you plan to leave your boyfriend so you can do stuff like go get totally wasted and have half-conscious sex with men you couldn't recognize again.

What do you expect to have done? Cured cancer? Gone on mercenary missions fighting Russians or Communists? If you've got a family you love, and your boyfriend is a solid guy who cares about you and treats you well, what are you missing?

[HAlove]

I dont want to wild out ! thats is not my style , but sometimes i get sad when all his friends and wives are at a bonfire or something and talk about things that hapened and laugh at their storys and im just here the youngest one with nothing to say ! I want to have storys to tell and be normal tooo!

[AndyWes]

stories like what?

[HAlove]

Funny storys with friends , or about a trip to cali , thats what they always talk about and im just here with nothing to tell

[AndyWes]

Then why don't you go hang out with friends, play pool, or go with your bf on a getaway?

Look... I honestly know how you feel. Like "dang, I haven't done much." But in reality, if you haven't failed much either, it's alright. Even in the Odyssey, Odysseus went on insane adventures, had sex with goddesses, but at the end of the day? "I just want to get home to my family!"