Is she letting me down easy, or does she really have no time at the moment?

[Anonymous]

Hi
have for the last 7-8 months been seeing, dating and texting this woman
we both have busy life so we only meet in person once or twice a month
latly it feels like she is avoiding questions about meeting
She do not have time to see me, or sometimes don’t answer at all
is this her way of letting me go easy or is it just about stressful time
am i wrong having some fear she met someone else
this has gone on for the last 3-4 weeks

ask this anonymoulsy since she migth read it

value your oppinion

[AmandaYVR]

3-4 weeks as a portion of a 7-8 month relationship is not a particularly significant amount of time. She could just be legitimately busy.

Do you want to ask her, and express your concerns? The only downside to that is that you might come off a bit insecure, perhaps, but that's not the absolute worst thing in the world. It's just a bit embarrassing.
On the flipside, it shows her that you do have feelings, and you do care about her and miss her. Which is simply expressing a certain amount of vulnerability. Which also won't kill you. (And it is a necessary component of relationships.)

If you don't want to talk about it, your concerns, or ask her about the details of her life and her schedule and give her the opportunity to express whatever it is she's busy with (maybe she'd think it's complaining; or maybe she's even too busy to complain or give details), then maybe just say "I miss you. Looking forward to seeing you soon."

[Asker]

Do think I will need some clarificaton at some point
Just have no clue on how to start that talk

[AmandaYVR]

Yeah, tough.
I don't know. Maybe something like this? (This is just a complete guess on what the details might be.)

Hey, how are you? I've been thinking. I don't want to put any undue pressure on you, but I have to admit, I'm starting to wonder if things are not okay between us. You might be legit busy, and that's totally fine, but I guess I just want to say that if there is anything bothering you, or you're not feeling the same anymore, my door is open to talk. I still want to continue. But if you don't, and you're just trying to let me down easy, I'd really rather (as all men would) that you just tell me directly. Or give me a chance to fix whatever you're not happy about.
Miss you,
[then sign your name]

[exitseven]

I could be that she is busy or maybe she is dissatisfied with the relationship.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[Avicenna]

Could be both actually

[IncognitoBandito]

She's trying to let you down easy.

[In_Trance]

Not interested

[Sketti2021]

Not interested