Should I Bother or am I wasting my time?

[WHYoHWHYOh]

Do you think I'm wasting my time and she doesn't like? In your honest opinion thank you for your time -

We've been talking for 2 months and I didn't text her for like 3 days in a row and all that time she liked and loved my pictures... then I texted her she texted back straight away and we talked for a while about 40mins before bed

I said "well did you miss me?🤣"
She said "I miss everyone 🤣"

Does that mean she doesn't like me straight up?

[JennyDunne2]

It does sound like a she's trying to stop you from getting any ideas, however its hard to tell if thats from not liking you that way or just being kind of nervous and protecting herself

Personally, after 2 months I'd recommend just asking her if she's interested or not. It doesn't need to be dramatic or an ultimatum, but just asking for clarity on what the relationship is seems normal at that point. I don't think I would be a good sounding bored but if you want to message me to workshop something feel free :)

[AmandaYVR]

You can't draw a conclusion from this small smattering of info.

But the "I miss everyone" does seem to suggest that she is trying to subtlely dissuade you from becoming too attached to her.
If she didn't mean it that way (which is possible), then it's on her to learn how to communicate a bit better.
If you want to find out, just ask her what she meant by this sentence.
The texting timing logistics mean very little. People need to stop trying to pull so much from them.

[NathanDavis]

you didn't text her on purpose? as a test?

if yes, then you're wasting your time and hers

the fact that neither of you bothered to check on one another for days straight... might be an indication that there's no genuine interested or well, not enough interest between the two of you

[Truthatanycost]

That makes you look like you weren't texting her, just to get a reaction, as opposed to merely being busy doing something important. In any case, since the majority of relationships are driven by the ego, as opposed to driven by God or the true self, it will be a waste of time anyway.

[Carolmille]

Deep.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Wouldn't it be easier to ask her? Instead of not contacting her to see what her reaction would be, which is kinda game playing if ask me... Why not state your feelings and ask if she sees it going anywhere cuz you don't want to waste time of she doesn't return your feelings... Noone on here can really know the answer

[ally018]

You’ll have to assess if she’s trying to play hard to get now that you ghosted her for 3 days or if she is not interested. Would she love other friends posts like yours or would she only do that to you?

[whirled_up_girl]

It sounds like she didn't want to commit to saying she missed you. Either it's too early for her to take this relationship with you seriously or your wasting you time with someone who doesn't want to be in a long term relationship with you.

[ItsMeElliana]

not much information tbh, she could rather just be wanting your attention, or just finds you interesting

[TrueConfection]

She might be asking herself the same question about you after not hearing from you. Maybe she's pulling back.

[JosyJosy]

Yeah ehh she says she misses everyone so you don't get any ideas... she's playing it safe. Could be either honestly.

[Anonymous]

You are overthinking keep talking to her it sounds like she might like you if she is liking your photos and she is still messaging you

[pup4life]

She probably doesn’t know if she likes you yet so she’s trying to play it cool for now until she thinks about it more

[Cheechee4me]

I think if you are chatting with one another and getting acquainted, anything is possible.

[DontTrustAnyone]

You are definitely no doubt wasting your time so if you should bother? Nope!

[FreyaRed]

You aren't the only one.

[aintnocandle]

Too little to tell lol. Maybe she’s just playin

[jennifer_bloom]

She is just playing hard to get

[Gwenhwyfar]

Sounds like she likes you

[pink_and_inlove]

Nah I’d give up dude what kind of response is that

[SmilesAintAgirl14]

well if you are having fun its not a waste of time

[In_Trance]

wasting your time