Do you think I'm wasting my time and she doesn't like? In your honest opinion thank you for your time -
We've been talking for 2 months and I didn't text her for like 3 days in a row and all that time she liked and loved my pictures... then I texted her she texted back straight away and we talked for a while about 40mins before bed
I said "well did you miss me?🤣" She said "I miss everyone 🤣"
It does sound like a she's trying to stop you from getting any ideas, however its hard to tell if thats from not liking you that way or just being kind of nervous and protecting herself
Personally, after 2 months I'd recommend just asking her if she's interested or not. It doesn't need to be dramatic or an ultimatum, but just asking for clarity on what the relationship is seems normal at that point. I don't think I would be a good sounding bored but if you want to message me to workshop something feel free :)
You can't draw a conclusion from this small smattering of info.
But the "I miss everyone" does seem to suggest that she is trying to subtlely dissuade you from becoming too attached to her. If she didn't mean it that way (which is possible), then it's on her to learn how to communicate a bit better. If you want to find out, just ask her what she meant by this sentence. The texting timing logistics mean very little. People need to stop trying to pull so much from them.
the fact that neither of you bothered to check on one another for days straight... might be an indication that there's no genuine interested or well, not enough interest between the two of you
That makes you look like you weren't texting her, just to get a reaction, as opposed to merely being busy doing something important. In any case, since the majority of relationships are driven by the ego, as opposed to driven by God or the true self, it will be a waste of time anyway.
Wouldn't it be easier to ask her? Instead of not contacting her to see what her reaction would be, which is kinda game playing if ask me... Why not state your feelings and ask if she sees it going anywhere cuz you don't want to waste time of she doesn't return your feelings... Noone on here can really know the answer
You’ll have to assess if she’s trying to play hard to get now that you ghosted her for 3 days or if she is not interested. Would she love other friends posts like yours or would she only do that to you?
It sounds like she didn't want to commit to saying she missed you. Either it's too early for her to take this relationship with you seriously or your wasting you time with someone who doesn't want to be in a long term relationship with you.
