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Should I just text this man I have been talking for a month and just cancel…even though he says he is still coming after he gets up from his nap. I want still see him but it’s getting late and ain’t no telling he is going to wake up. Am I wasting my time? I haven’t put any clothes on yet.
Am I wasting my time?
Anonymous
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So you’re standing pre-date and unprepared… probably need an hour or two to get ready while the guy is basically going to roll out of bed, fix his hair (and perhaps brush his teeth) then come pick you up? Try calling to make sure he’s awake then get dressed… and if he is… and on his way… don’t make him wait around the way some girls do or he might end up snoozing on your couch.
OR… the guy has kept you waiting aimlessly before, in which case you shut it down and call it a night… pop on a romcom and put on a face mask….
Metalsmith hammers?
No, don’t cancel
Why not? It’s getting late
It’s Saturday night don’t worry about it
Going to have to…I think he is going to sleep the whole night through. He worked today…. its better to just cancel and reschedule. And I could have stayed where I was…and came home tomorrow
Let him decide
It’s better if he stays asleep, and get his rest. I only came back early because I wanted to see him.
You don’t know how tired he is it’s not like he’s gonna have a car accident
Why don’t you go to his place? Bring some food over watch a watch a movie land then put him to sleep with a kiss on the cheek and that’s it nothing more.
Well, I am not putting on any clothes unless he is actually coming. At this point I want to go to bed
Then blame yourself
Why blame myself?
Because you don’t have the energy and you don’t feel like getting dressed up and putting makeup on
And I was going to go his place, he was going to come to get me
You could always drive to his house and have a casual date night just watching a movie and having takeout no need to get dressed up fancy
Watch the ice hockey game the Florida Panthers are in the Stanley Cup finals starts in 30 minutes
if we’re going to keep talking talking private message, I have to keep going through all these replies
I don’t have a car. I could Uber.. but I don’t have his address, he has mine though
Oh how long have you known this guy? If we’re gonna do a lot of talking can we do it in private message? I have to keep going through all these replies. I can come off of anonymous and you can message me
I have known him for a month
That’s not very long you better let him cancel
Well he better hurry up and cancel
Yes he should if he’s not going to make it
I have a feeling that he is not going to make it. I have been understanding twice already because that’s just who I am. He is better off staying asleep.
Why don’t you private message me if we’re going to continue talking about the subject because by the time I get through all the replies it’s easier to private message. I can come off anonymous for five minutes if you want.
He woke up, hit me up and said sorry. But didn’t cancel, but I think sorry was his way
Text him back or call him now
I already tried to call.. straight to voicemail mail
Will leave a message. Don’t hang up. Call Again now
Texted him…he isn’t responding anymore, I think he went back to sleep
Yikes oh well have you met this guy in person yet?
We’ve video chatted, was suppose to meet tonight