Wasting my time?

[Anonymous]

I have a Muslim boyfriend and the fact that he still has my actual name on his contacts instead of an heart or whatever cute nickname. And his reason was " my parents might see it from iPad when I am not at home" they look at my fone screen" 💀 for me it's a bit dumb. I understand if I will never meet his parents or make our photo or me as his lockscreen but a fucking contact name? 😆💀


Am I in right to be pissed? Or I am just over reacting lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe over reacting just a bit for what it is but I can somewhat understand, you don't feel like he should hide you from his parents cause you are genuinely seeking for something with him and it seems like he's putting excuses I get it but, baby steps anon, baby steps.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I have never changed anyone's contact name to some pet name shite in my life. Nor will I. If this is all that's wrong with the relationship you lucked out.

[laly520]

some of em tend to keep their relationships n intimacy away from parents as an act of respecting em so probably not a big deal

[Tim2nice]

If it makes you feel better I have my wife’s full name on my phone and it’s a long one. But I have to ask why are you getting involved with a Muslim? You know you have no future with him, so why waste precious time?

[JacobJordan]

What are you 12? If you exist in his contacts at all count yourself lucky. Does your name have emojis or hearts? No so quit whining

[JayBones]

If you are not a Muslim you should ask him to remove your name entirely from his phone. Do you know what his parents will do when they find out you are dating?

[nawtee_me]

If you stay with him then you have to deal with it. Leave him or say nothing else about it.

[SphynxUK]

You’re overreacting. Grow up.

[MrZameer]

Where you both live

[Asker]

Both raised in uk