Why do guys on dating apps insist on wasting my time?

[Anonymous]

Why do guys on dating apps insist on wasting my time? They will use hours and even days to talk to me before the out of nowhere ask me to go to their house or something. Is it because I look like a naive slut they do this? I dont show any skin on my pics. .

Why dont guys ask from the start "what are you looking for?" Only three guys or so has actually asked this and yeah it direct, but that way no one wastes their time if we want different things.. at least they show some respect for other peoples time

[Fluttershy22]

I talk to people for 1/3 weeks before going on a date. I want to know there first name, favorite food/color, there goals, there interests and hobbies. If I like them before I plan to hang out or go on a date I ask what there looking for... Everyone that talks to me and gets to know me online says I'm a great person to bad it's 6 out of like 100 people I tried to talk to so I gave up, guys try to hook up and those of us looking for something real get mess over.

[Jack_S]

It's possible they are testing the waters for a relationship, finding they sent interested in that from you, and so, throw a wild "wanna bang" question to see if the can get anything from it

[Asker]

Any advice on how to handle getting viewed as easy? Im the oposit of easy, but I dont get treated that way and/or people assume im very experienced (have no clue why) and its super frustrating

[Jack_S]

Guy will always ask if they have nothing to lose. I'll look a at your account though if you want. I've done it before for other people

[Anonymous]

If they don't ask you "What are you looking for?", nothing forbids you to ask them the exact same question in order to prevent wasting your time.

[Minxxie]

dating apps in general are a waste of time

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

Because it's rude otherwise.

[Asker]

So they think its Rude to not waste someones time?

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

No they think it's rude to ask "do you wanna bang?" right away when they meet a girl.