Do escorts only pretend to be friends with you? when in reality your nothing to them?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

There is a reason we tell young men to never wife a hoe, stripper, or escort. These women will always be in it for the money/fun, and giving you an experience is just a job/fun to them. Further, there's a reason women end up in these roles, and its almost always a result of past trauma, which inhibits their ability to make and sustain true intimacy. These women will ruin your life if don't have experience with women, and its almost always men without much experience that get hurt the most by them. So the rule of thumb is, never ever wife a hoe, stripper, or escort. They are for practice and fun, nothing more.

[Asker]

This girl loves money, she told me herself.
Addicted to it I'd say.

[loveslongnails]

Friends? How can someone you just met for the express purpose of having sex, or even just to be company, be called a friend? You're paying them to make you feel special. Other than that, they're in it for the money and/or the perks depending on how wealthy you are.

[Asker]

I've seen them 12 times in 2 months.
We talk about everything.
Yet I get the feeling she's fake.
I'll stop treating her nice, treat her rubbish like everyone else.

[loveslongnails]

If you start treating her like shit, she'll probably refuse to meet you anymore. What EVER made you think an escort was your friend? You don't pay your friends to be with you, do you? You don't pay friends to have sex with you, do you?

[Quackthulu2]

36-45 and just now figuring out how customer service works huh?

[Asker]

Nope, I know already.
I'll treat her badly instead of nice from now on.

[Quackthulu2]

Have fun getting shot.

[Asker]

Shot?

[Asker]

This is England, no pimps here

[Agape93]

Then have fun getting stabbed, beaten with bats or have acid thrown on your face. God forbid if that girls run by the Albanians, they'll literally rip you to pieces.

[Agape93]

Also, England has pimps

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yes... I mean duh, that's a no-brainer... well... you 'get some brain,' but you know what I'm trying to say. 😂

[Asker]

I suppose I was doing a experiment, see her as much as possible, see if she was human.
12 times in 2 months.
See what would happen.
I treated her like a normal girl, respect her.
Never talked down to her, talked about everything.
Gave her little gifts.
I conclude this means nothing, all she likes is the money.

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's a job. If they were looking for a relationship, they could probably get one. I have seen the really young ones become a sucker for a guy, but it never ends well. A lot of those girls have a boyfriend that they share their earned money with. Probably some bad boy with muscles or a lot of head games.

[Asker]

This particular girl, age 23, though nice in a way.
She was tired of a low salary at the cocktail bar.
She loves money, she actually told me this. nice flat, likes travelling.
Basically a luxury lifestyle.
Also She is scared people find out she does this, nobody in her life knows.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yup, sounds like almost every chick I know that gets some money... vacations, big or ritzy places they don't even fully utilize, and they basically don't really save very well at all. If I spend money, it is usually for something I can use... not for something I can just take pictures with and post on Instagram.

[Luopio27]

Same can be said about anyone in the career world. For example, is a girl being friendly only because she is paid to be polite to her customers while selling burgers.

[Asker]

You'd expect someone to be genuine when you see them lots of times.
I conclude those girls only care about money.
I think they have a flaw inside them, very few girls are willing to do this work.

[Luopio27]

Kindness and business are different categories. Never met escorts but dont expect them to behave any different than models. Just bodies for hire, to give company or look good infront of camera.

[Freyke]

They get paid to be a partner. So they're going to be that tiny bit nicer than usual. But I am sure that if you're a good person, their attitude towards you will have some genuineness to it.

[Asker]

I've seen her 12 times in 2 months.
I give her little gifts.
Yet I still think she doesn't give shit.

[Freyke]

Well they're not all the same. And why gifts?

[Asker]

Just like sweets (chocolate)
Just thought I'd be nice to her.
Something different.
Because I thought most guys would treat her bad, it's a brothal after all.

[Freyke]

I wonder if they can do much with a gift from a client. They might have their own family to come home to.

[Asker]

Nope, not this girl.
23 years old.
Lives on her own.
Basically she does this for a nice lifestyle.

[Asker]

From what I know is she went to university for 3 years and dropped out.
Got a job in a cocktail bar, poor salary.
Started working in the brothal so that she can get her own place, be able to travel, she likes travel.

[Anonymous]

yes and no. You could still be their "friend", but they will be a lot less likely to spend time with you if you stop giving them money.

[LiamJHayden]

Of course. Just like 99% of the time the waitress flirting with you is to maximize the tip.

[Anonymous]

Dude you're just a pay check for them..

[Asker]

I know that now.
They deserve shit right?

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. She sees you as a valued customer.

[Asker]

Not really.
She's always fully booked if I book her or not.
If I don't book her someone else will.

[Anonymous]

Obviously yes.