I just want to know what girls like the most about a guy and why. It could be anything.
like for me I find a woman's butt to drive me crazy especially with a gap.
I see you went straight for a physical attribute. The most attractive thing to me is his personality. You see, you could be the most handsome guy on the planet (to me) and a complete jerk. I am not going to give that person the time of day.
However, the person with the quality personality, I will consider dating because good personality is an attractive trait. It also includes many other things that rounds out a personality... things like values, morals, character, humour, etc.
Those are all things that I look for in a potential partner and rank higher than looks. As far as how do I let him know? Well, there would be dates two, three and so on. That is how he would know. If my personality and his meshed well, he would be someone I would consider dating to see if there is potential for a serious relationship.
Now, if I HAVE to pick a physical attribute, it isn't so much a particular body part but more so style. I like a guy that is neat and well dressed. When I mean neat, I mean nicely cut hair, no beard or facial hair and that sort of thing.
If I was into dating or even looking for a partner, he should have a number of qualities. To me, the most important things about a person, regardless whether this person is to date, to talk to or just to be with are:
- Character
- Intellect
- Personality
- Charisma
- Responsible
- Humor
- Caring
- Open mind
- Being respectful of others, animals and nature
- Not selfish
- Altruism
- Honesty
- Humble
- Generosity
- Simplicity
- Kindness
- Smart
- Empathy
- Positive attitude
- Assertiveness
- Body hygiene
That about summarizes what I seek in another person. I know that will be difficult, but I can still hope, no?
What I am not interested the least are looks, cult of the personality, physique, height, weight and for those that are so worried about that small detail, the size of their penile appendage. That is totally not relevant to me.
Now, how would I let him know my requirements? With the size of my list, the best way would be to give it to him in writing and he could simply tick what he has and what not.
The intelligence in his eyes. That one is a must.
I like big strong guys. Don't care about the you-know-what size. It's actually really irrelevant.
Smart, strong, and funny. Which most guys seem to be. Emphasis on "smart".
For me, it's his overall presence physically: broad shoulders, stubbles, sparkling eyes, big hands, big smile, nice teeth, nice hair, good height, etc.
If not physical: I like a man's intelligence, career success, humor, his indulgence of me, his values, etc.
There are many things I like about the male form and mind as a straight woman.
Mentally: a good sense of humor.
Physically: a great smile (no necessarily perfect teeth, a smile that makes me wanna smile) love dimples tho.
Emotionally: compassion
He has to be kind, respectful, confident and a little nuts. Then we can move on to the physical stuff.
I personally observe their arms and hands, if it’s muscular and has a strong shape to it then it is to my liking.
He has to have all the right personality traits, otherwise I won't find anything attractive about him.
I like when a guy act protective, he take a stand for me, strong but at the same time humble and extremely caring.
His smile and him being respectful
His confidence.
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