Men, what are your thoughts on toxic women?

[Anonymous]

I’m toxic, so what are your honest thoughts?

[Anonymous]

There are a LOT of toxic women today, but I don't consider you one of them. I've read a lot of your posts and you seem like a fair and thoughtful person who is probably a little harder on herself than anyone else is. You seem like one of the good ones to me.

[Asker]

I wish I can believe that myself.

[Asker]

If you got to know the real me, you would think twice.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think so.

[Asker]

I’m a total bitch to people. I live at home and I don’t drive. Never been in a relationship my whole entire life because of those reasons and more. There’s many more but you get the idea.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I don't know you very well. I only know the persona and opinions you share here. But based on that you seem like a better woman than many here. You just don't see it in yourself, but that is endearing in a way. One of the most off putting things to men about today's women are their self importance, and you're not like that. I suspect if you could see yourself through others' eyes you would think more highly of yourself.

[Asker]

Ok, let me add on this. I attract bad men and not good men. Good men want nothing to do with me. That’s gotta say something about me.

[Opinion Owner]

You attract bad men because you think they are what you deserve.

[Asker]

No, because I’m toxic and good men can sense that. I may seem good on the outside, but I’m not on the inside. And they can see right through that. Hence, why toxic men are more attracted to me.

[Asker]

This has been like this throughout my life. It’s why I never found a good man to be with. Not that I would want someone good to be with with me because that wouldn’t go very well for them.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I don't think you're toxic if you say you're toxic. You might be a bit difficult but hey, we're all a WIP. Real toxic is hopeless. You don't see any signs of progress each day. I don't have a positive opinion about such a relationship.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I think these days people are so uptight and throwing around terms like "toxic" left and right that it's easy to think everyone, including yourself, is toxic. So you get angry a little bit more easily than most people or cry a little more or whatnot, so what? That doesn't mean you're "toxic". It means you're "human", "imperfect", but not necessarily "toxic" -- not if you're sincere and true and absent maliciousness.

[Jdjfjcjj]

I mean I figured as much by the color of your hair

[Asker]

LMAO 🤣

[Jdjfjcjj]

Damn I like that you can take a joke though. That's a positive selling point

[loveslongnails]

I have no thoughts about or time for toxic women, not as friends and certainly not in any kind of relationship. What makes you say that you're toxic?

[DarkLegacy]

Im not sure you know what you are or what you want. But nobody decent wants a toxic person

[Asker]

I know what kind of person I am.

[Mansearching]

Depends on if your toxic on others or yourself.

[HopelessGuy183]

Depending on how toxic. If it’s too toxic, I will leave that girl but if it’s just a little then I mean we all are a little toxic at times so that’s fine.

[Guardian45]

Ummm. Why are you toxic? And what are you doing about it?

[slatyb]

I know enough to recognize and avoid them.