Bra fit without a bra?

[canoodlebug]

I’m from the UK and the other week, I went to get a bra fitting. I went in and a young girl helped me with getting my size etc. However, when I needed to put a bra on, she said I could take my bra off in front of her and she would help me into the new one.

Is that normal practice or is that odd?

[msmissydc]

Its normal when its the owner or a privat shop in my experience. I never experienced it with employees though. Most importantly though, they should accept it when you are not fine with it. It is supposed to be a helping hand, not a way to make someone uncomfortable.

[canoodlebug]

Ah I see. It didn’t make me feel uncomfortable as such, was just curious

[mommymommy]

Then why are you asking about it

[msmissydc]

@mommymommy I mean she said she was curious about it. Also it would probably made a difference if it wouldn't be normal.

[mommymommy]

Noones ever "just curious" about something. There's always some sort of motive behind it. She's asking for a reason. I'd like to know why she's asking why she wasn't made comfortable or not

[msmissydc]

@mommymommy Ok, I can't speak for her so maybe there is a reason. I can speak for me though and sometimes I just am curious. Especially on a site like this which is all about questions. No on cares really if you have the weirdest questions ever, you get answers anyway. SO for me sometimes I am JUST curious.

[mommymommy]

No such thing as "just curious"

[canoodlebug]

@mommymommy does it matter why I was asking? I wasn’t upset or offended, just wondering why because I don’t think it’s standard practice

[mommymommy]

There's no such thing as "just wondering". There is some motive here, and I don't know what it is, but I'm trying to figure it out

[msmissydc]

@mommymommy How can you be under the impression that natural curiosity doesn't exists? How do you learn things that interest you? Have you ever informed yourself about something because you just didn't know something? Now I am curious how you live your life without being curious?

[mommymommy]

You can "be curious" but it's usually for an underlying reason

I'm curious about a lot of things on this site, BECAUSE ITS RUN HORRIBLY. So, how do I go about figuring out why that is, I haven't figure it out yet, but I will get to the bottom of it

[msmissydc]

@mommymommy So what is your underlying reason to figure out why we are under the impression that pure curiosity exists?

[mommymommy]

Because it's just a way to "skirt the question"

[canoodlebug]

@mommymommy maybe I was just wondering if she was coming on to me! Haha

[msmissydc]

@mommymommy Ok I dont get it, which question and who wants to "skirt the question"?

[mommymommy]

Canoodle just answered it. I knew what she was getting at, just wanting to see if she would finally admit that she might actually like this girl. Otherwise, she "wouldn't have cared what the girl did"

[msmissydc]

@mommymommy And what is your reason you are showing interest in finding that out?

[mommymommy]

Oh, because I was trying to get her to admit it. Why not?

[EmmaMary]

Personally I have never known or experienced such a thing.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Wise4myage]

That's hot!

[jjj101010]

Sounds normal