How would u react if you found out your man cheated on you with a broke girl?

[tempirl2012]

I have a house, car and a job... yet, my man cheated on me with a female who's walking, catching the bus, she has no job nor a house. But she did say she was in college and had a Certificate in JROTC in high school. (Which is pointless) She was also staying with her mom now she's homeless living with different guys. (She said it online) Only thing she have to offer any guy is her looks and body cause she does have a big butt. like why would any guy cheat on a female who has their stuff together already with a broke pretty face nice body female who have NOTHING? If this happened to you, Wouldn't you be upset?

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Then on top of that, my man impregnated her. 😠

[Itonlytakesone]

Before I say anything I just have to say I'm sorry this happened to I think wrong no matter what the excuse or how it happened. It happened to me with my ex wife. But to me no it wouldn't be the primary reason I would be upset by no means and i don't think it would really even be a bother to me in anyway. Just a reminder that I don't think it was ok he did that and not justifying anything for him but to me it just says he doesn't care what a person has or doesn't have as far those things you mentioned goes. Maybe he would never have her as a partner and only wants to bang her. And there's a whole lot of other what ifs. If you would like them all dm me. And you said he impregnated her how do either of you know it's his if she staying with multiple guys?

[tempirl2012]

There was a recording of him saying she's stuck with him for 18 years. And we know what's going on by her facebook post.

[Avicenna]

That was dumb on his part. Guys for the easy lay when cheating

[Spongebobssocks]

Men and women want different things. Men dont care about how much money a woman makes/her career etc like women do. Its just sexual.

I would problaby break up with him not because he slept with someone else but because he hid it. I would personally be okay with my future partner do have "fun" if its 100% physical and I'm aware of it but the lying is whats hurtful and make it hard to trust him. So my advice is to leave him.

But do what feels best for you.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Well.. you're different

[Spongebobssocks]

@WanderingLoveWizard lol how am I different?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Most women aren't ok with their man sleeping with other women.
You're pretty cool, I have to say

[Spongebobssocks]

@WanderingLoveWizard oh okay. Thank you! Well I wasent before but then I learned men can have sex without any feelings (100% physical) so if its like that then sure.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

That is 100% true. As long the feelings come out with you, then I guess you're right

[Spongebobssocks]

@WanderingLoveWizard 😊👍🏻

[Spongebobssocks]

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That's fucked up. Leave him asap. Let him pay for child support for a hoe.. it won't last and he will regret it all. Its karma trust me.

[tempirl2012]

He said he doesn't want her that's why he stayed with me instead.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah but impregnent... did he pay for her to have an abortion? Does he wanna be in the kids life?

[tempirl2012]

He never said for her to get an abortion. He just blocked her number so i wouldn't find out. But I did!

[Spongebobssocks]

Hmm okay. If I were you I'd sit down and talk to him tell him if he wants to have "fun" in the future he gotta ask you first. And also he will not be in that childs life or that woman.

Does he own up to the fact of what he did or is he playing victim?

[tempirl2012]

Basically he's saying she's lying about the pregnancy. But in the text message he told her he didn't want to leave her alone. But she slept with his cousin.

[Spongebobssocks]

Leave him. Do it asap..! I would

[tempirl2012]

I do want to but he says he's not talking to her anymore. All she does beg him to be around while she's pregnant. But he ignores her. He don't ask about the baby or her. He doesn't care about neither one of them obviously.

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay just seams odd with what he said on the text. That he didn't wanna leave her.

[tempirl2012]

I don't know. But We're still together 😊.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright! I wish you the best!😊

[Spongebobssocks]

Thankyou for MHO!

[WanderingLoveWizard]

She doesn't need a job and a car to get fucked.
Cheating for men is about sex. Plain and simple

[tempirl2012]

Well he got her pregnant too.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Oh, even better! What a scum bag

[tempirl2012]

He says he doesn't want anything to do with her now because she can't offer him anything but sex. Said he don't want her or the baby. That's why he chose to stay with me instead

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Well, he fucked up and doesn't want to be responsible for his own mistake.
It's up to you whether or not you want to be with him still, but he sounds like trash to me

[Anonymous]

OK, your man is a piece of shit.

But if you think the fact that this woman was broke or didn't have a house or car, you have no idea what is important to men.