Girls, if your boyfriend cheats on you how would you react?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would be surprised and then angry. I'm waiting for marriage so I would think of course he gave in to his lust and cheated on me. It would probably make me think a little less of men since they have this hurt fixation with sex and they let it control their lives.

I would know instantly and automatically that it's over, I'm done with him. I can't trust him anymore and nor do I want to be with him anymore as well.

I would probably thank him (I don't know if that shocks anyone). But I would thank him for telling me the truth and choosing not to live in a lie.

For respecting me enough in telling me something I deserve to know. I feel if the roles were reversed he would feel the same way so he shouldn't expect my reaction to be unreasonable and to expect the relationship to be over basically.

I would probably ask him why he did it though. I'd want a straight answer and then maybe ask if he cares at all about me. I'd want to understand where his state of mind was when it happened, what was going through his head.

If sex is that important to him that he's willing to cheat for it and I'll ask if he regrets it. All these questions and answers will help me when moving on.

At the end of a relationship, I dont want to be focused so heavily on painting the person as the bad guy. I just want to forgive him and move on. Yeah it happened and hopefully he learned his lesson to not do that again.

He'll have it on his mind for the next the relationship that he is a cheater. Most likely that will come up in all the relationships in the future. Every woman will have a problem with it unless they have also cheated as well. But there will be forever repercussions.

I'll wish him the best, I dont wish anything bad to happen to him. I hope he finds the girl that makes him happy.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Dumb him immediately after letting him know that he hurts no matter how he feels about it. Let's me, I take every relationship very seriously and he's my second one, my only ex (and hopefully the last) turned out to be a douchebag who just wanted the V-card for me yet used manipulation instead of telling me to my face (obviously I was going to say no, it's against both my religion and personal values)
My now-boyfriend was completely fine waiting and even enjoys the platonic relationship long-distance. Compared to former one who just gave me doubts before his purpose became clearer with time, I would be so much broken if a man so sincere and sweet that gave me so much security to display my personality and opinions, just suddenly had gotten with another, I believe I will be so much enraged and sad, after all I had a sting in my heart just reading this question and imagining it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For a relationship to start healing after infidelity, the cheating partner should be willing to make amends. If they refuse to express remorse and apologize for their behavior, it may be a sign that you are in a toxic relationship and it is best to walk away.

KrakenAttackin · Accepted Answer

Women would rather share an Alpha than have a Beta to themselves. Fact.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

Indifferent. He already failed during the dating stage and a boyfriend is just that, a temporary person that can come and around. Besides shared feelings and a verbal agreement, there is nothing that's bonding us permanently nor shared assets.

Unlike the stereotype of us Latinas going wild and being all short-tempered if a boyfriend cheats, I'll actually open the door for him.

Girls, if your boyfriend cheats on you how would you react?

Sour-rose · Answer

Let him go. I know, you probably expect the sour rose to be more sour but seeing i'm asexual, somewhat dumb, aaand have my limits, I'm just wasting my time on someone dumber than me. Therefore, let him cheat... and be someone a baby daddy and ruin his life. I won't be involved in it.

ChooChooHaha · Answer

If I actually got my hopes up about him: Sad, stunned, shattered, then run away like he had a gun to my head. Then, do as I did with my first boyfriend who cheated on me: live well as the best revenge. Heal.

And get a WONDERFUL, HONEST man long term who is at least somewhat modest with self control.

TheeTrybrid · Answer

I would be hurtand disappointed but I'm not aoutto argue with u or yell at u because you knew it was wrong and u still chose to do it. So basically u didn't love or respect me and the relationship enough not to hurt me. So i wouldn't say anything, I would just pack my shit and be gone the very next day.

awoooooziees · Answer

Find out for sure, then bash him so badly he can't walk or shoot his knee caps off. Bash him with the butt of my glock for a few mins till I've knocked his fronts out then probably stomp on his spine, chuck him in the boot of the car, amd dump him in a ditch somewhere.

Paulalove98 · Answer

Hurt, angry, betrayed, upset, etc. I’d get back at him if I had invested so much time and energy and he ended up doing something so awful because I’m loyal to the fault

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I don't know how I would exactly in the moment. Most likely shocked and angry, disappointed and such. And hurt. But what I 100% know is that I would end the relationship.

blueprinter · Answer

I don't know about others... But i am kind of person who can die from heartbreaks... If i find out my boyfriend is cheating on me, i gonna tell him how much i am hurt , how he has no respect for me or this relationship, and cut all contacts with him... Never go back with him.. Cause once a cheater always a cheater..

Yeah... 😃

TacosRAwesome · Answer

In all honesty, my ex told me he got a massage from a hand job shop once, didn't care about that. It's his justification for doing it that pissed me off and the fact that he tried to play the victim.

DermalPunch · Answer

Well, I would end the relationship. Permanently.

comekitty · Answer

Heartbroken. Pissed.  There wouldn't be any making amends. I've learned the hard way that once a cheater, always a cheater.

LeeannaDD · Answer

Gonna cheat right back with a guy that will hurt him the most, then tell him and dump him

electromagnetic · Answer

I wouldn’t react. I’d pack up my things and leave.

FreyaRed · Answer

End the relationship without much discussion.

ElGato31 · Answer

I don't have a boyfriend then, just become single. If he cheats.

Anonymous · Answer

The way I learned as a kid, I would give him another chance if he wanted one and try to make the relationship work again. If he doesn’t want to be with me anymore, then I would just leave and let him go and I would disconnect myself from him.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

I would be incredibly upset. I would end it with him and I would take the cat with me.

sheikalana · Answer

I would want to understand why so I can act accordingly.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

Dump him and burn down his favourite car🙂🙂

Anonymous · Answer

I'd likely make sure he came home to me riding his friend's cock or something like that.

BrookeS · Answer

CUT HIS FUCKING BALLS OF AND MAKE HIM EAT THEM

Haha456 · Answer

i would just block him and ghost him.

LittleSally · Answer

They'd be dead to me.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Disappointed and angry.

SolSolBunBun · Answer

Eh Whatever. I Don’t Care. I’m Not Monogamous.

Minahh · Answer

Dump his motherfucking ass and never see him again

wittymilf · Answer

Define cheating?

Littlejugs99 · Answer

Leave him.

chicken_nugget24 · Answer

You dump him

Softlife808 · Answer

I'd leave

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