Our mutual friend introduced us and we hit it off. She is of a different religion to me so it never really went anywhere. She got a boyfriend and he then told her to stop speaking to me. We didn't speak for a couple of months and when she broke up with him, got back in touch with me. I met her a few times and we went out drinking, we kissed a few times. She said we would be better as friends but if the same religion, she would be with me. Next time we met, we spent the night together and nothing happened. She seemed on edge so I didn't bother making a move or anything. Shortly after, she began having psychotic episodes. Not realising what was happening around her and doing very weird things. She took distance from me, so I gave her space.
Now she is getting better it seems and explains to me what she was going through. We don't really talk anymore. Without fail, once a month she will pop up saying 'hey, how have you been? Hope you've been good' but that's about it. Nothing after that, then the next month it's the same.
I'm trying to work out if she can't let me go for whatever reason or she's just bored when I pop up into her head. Thoughts?
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It's difficult to say for certain why your friend is reaching out to you on a monthly basis with seemingly no specific purpose or conversation to have. However, it's possible that she may be experiencing some level of uncertainty or indecision about how she feels about you and your relationship.
It's also possible that she may simply be checking in to see how you're doing or to maintain a connection with you, without any specific agenda or intention.
If you're feeling uncertain or confused about her behavior, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and intentions. You can express your concerns and ask for clarification on her motives for reaching out, while also being respectful and understanding of her perspective.
Ultimately, it's up to you to decide how to proceed in this situation. Just be sure to communicate your feelings and intentions clearly and to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.
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