Is this abnormal?

[Viatatom]

Listen, I don't remember that I had real crush on someone but it's not the problem I wanna talk about.. the point is that I don't care about boys around me maybe I don't notice or see them... But once one of them show interest I begin to think of him , not like someone I love but I think about him, his look and I focus on him.

And if he doesn't I don't even see him.. is that a problem?

I always hear other girls talking about their crushes but me? hell no I haven't have one ever.

I feel like I am abnormal or that I am attention seeker but this is not me I am sure but it makes me feel bad about myself

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that everyone experiences attraction differently, and there is no one "normal" way to feel or behave. It's okay if you haven't had a crush or don't feel attracted to boys around you. It's also okay if you only become interested in someone once they show interest in you.

It's important to focus on what feels true and authentic to you, rather than trying to conform to what you think is expected of you. If you are feeling bad about yourself, it may be helpful to talk to a trusted friend or professional about your feelings and experiences, and to develop strategies for building self-esteem and self-acceptance.

It's also important to remember that attraction and romantic feelings can develop over time and may not always be immediate. It's okay to take things at your own pace and to focus on building meaningful connections with others, rather than trying to force feelings that aren't there.

Ultimately, it's important to embrace and accept yourself for who you are, rather than trying to fit into a mold that doesn't feel true to you. You are unique and deserving of love and respect, regardless of how you experience attraction or romantic feelings.

[hbg84]

Its not normal persay but its normal for some.