Am I wrong for always checking her social media to see if she’s talking to somebody else?

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I don't know why I do it I only do it when I think she’s lying I just have to see because it makes me feel relieved which I know not healthy I don’t tell her I do it or say anything

WanderingLoveWizard · Accepted Answer

Don't do it bro. I understand why you do, because I've done it myself, but it will eat away at you... and your relationship.
One day you're gonna find something you don't like and you'll overreact. That will cause resentment between both of you and you'll push eachother away. It could even lead to one or both of you cheating on the other.

Take my advice and learn to believe that whatever you think she might be doing is OK. I know talking to other guys is heart wrenching, but in the end, who cares? If she falls for someone else or cheats on you, it's not the end of the world. The two of you weren't meant to be and you'll know it's time to move on.

Or she'll never talk to another guy and you'll live happily ever after. Either way, you causing all that extra stress and worry on yourself isn't gonna change a god damn thing.
Just let it go and be blissfully ignorant. Whatever happens happens and you'll cross that bridge when you get to it.

This takes a lot of strength and letting go of your ego a bit, but in the end you'll both be much much happier for it. Trust me

VikingWarLord · Accepted Answer

Dude you're still too young to worry or over-obsess on any one female. You're not even 30 yet.

Now is the time to focus on money, so no matter what a bytch does (or doesn't do) nor if she acts right or doesn't act right, you'll always have tons of options.

And trust, when you get your money up, they will flock to you in droves and you won't have to check up on them, they'll be constantly checking up on YOU.

AlexisDiani · Accepted Answer

Yeah you should stop that. Trust her until she gives you a reason not to.

Uenvy694u · Answer

Yes u are wrong. Reason being the more u check up on her. Means the less u trust her. Which is bad cause over time she will get tired of u checking up on her. Sooner or later it will cause her 2 do something that u might regret.

In_Trance · Answer

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