Can't stop checking my phone for her texts?

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's a terrible condition, I know, especially since my feelings were unrequited. I've tried everything from deleting her number to turning my phone off and only using it when I need to, but even then I get a gurgling, unpleasant feeling in my stomach when I turn it on. Then I get sad and the feeling lingers. I hate it. Can someone help me out here? I can be the busiest guy in the world with no thought of her, but when it comes to use my phone, it ruins my whole day since, of course, there's never anything from her.

[Mankow]

I know exactly how you feel it has happened to me as well and just like the girl said you should just text her and see what happens. If you want to hear from her so badly then prompt her to talk to you. If you are right and she has no feelings for you then you will have closure if not then everything is good.

[Anonymous]

I have that when I get dumped... I guess the only thing you can do is call (not text) her and hope she answers. But if she doesn't don't leave a message and don't call her again unless she does.

[Asker]

I guess that would "soothe" things because I won't be left hanging; at the same time, wouldn't that hamper me from "getting over" her?

[Opinion Owner]

I mean right now I would say you are incapable of getting over her. And sometimes I think you call, if she answers/calls back things get more complicated just talk to her, and don't talk about relationship sh*t under any circumstance.... and I do mean any. And if she doesn't then you just have to let it go. I would take this as an opportunity to learn patience... cause whether you get back together or get over her, either takes a lot of time. Me I play sports when I'm in your shoes.

[Opinion Owner]

Right now I feel like you are in damage control mode. So if calling her helps you feel better even for a couple hours that's a good thing, its those moments where you start to feel normal again that count. You get a chance to remember what feeling okay feel's like. Just don't make a habit of calling her, or Facebook stalking or anything like that. Gets very counter-productive

[Anonymous]

just text her.

she probally IS waiting for you to text her.

trust me I really want this guy to text me and he's not and I don't wanna text him because I don't wanna be annoying.

[Anonymous]

text her! Maybe she is waiting to hear from you!

[Asker]

That's the thing. I don't think she is, as the feelings are unrequited. As a result, she probably doesn't care. I'm sure there are things out there that has reminded her of me, and she hasn't texted. Therefore, I flew out of her mind.

[Opinion Owner]

Well she might be thinking the same thing! just take a chance and see what happens! if she doesn't seem interested move on if she does them I'm right:) lol