I lost an arm wrestling to my boyfriend's ex. We bet our hair, so she washed and cut my hair in public. Am I right to feel embarrased? ?

[geminisgirl]

[SadyConfused1998]

Girl, I know just what your talking about.

I did something just as dumb a couple of years ago.

But my bet was strip naked and run across the beach.

What made it worse was that I didn't know at the time, but my favorite aunt and uncle where at the same beach.

As I was running naked, I just so happen to trip over my uncle's feet and fell on top of him

Talk about trying to explain this to them while your trying to hide your naked body.

I'm still embarrassed when I see them at family functions

[geminisgirl]

I get it. How would feel when your boyfriend's ex destroyed in arm wrestling contest in front of his, and also after she slowly was washing your long, beautiful and drastically cut it very short hair. I also started crying during a hair and she enjoyed id.

How would you feel in my case?

[SadyConfused1998]

Just as embarrassed. My hair is my everything

[geminisgirl]

Losing arm wrestling would also be embarassing for you? She showed me how weak I am

[Katie1964]

Yes you should be embarrassed for entering into such a childish deal and act. Sheeesh!

[mb120101]

No I dont care about how strong my girlfriend is and I dont care about which one of my exes would win in a fight thats dumb

[geminisgirl]

Whatever. She just wanted to embarrass me and she did it. I cried when I lost and I criend when she was washing my hair and cutting it really short

[mb120101]

I doubt your boyfriend took it negatively and if thats what makes his ex feel good about herself she's a retard and its not worth feeling bad over

[mb120101]

Im sure guys will just laugh and call me Beta but that Alpha concept is super dumb to me, in the end its about money and success not weights. Were all getting old and weak at some point, but some of us will be old and weak with money

[geminisgirl]

She is extremely impressed by tall, athletic/quite muscular women. His ex who defeated me is tall and athletic. I am short and skinny and weak. However she is worse than me in every other area. I am MUCH prettier than her, I am much smarter and succesful than her, I have more interesting personality and I am younger than me. It was why my boyfriend left her for me and it is why she is still upset and she wanted to show him that she got traits (height, strength, muscles) he adores and I don't have them

[mb120101]

Well I can tell you as a fact men dont consider height strength and muscles as a factor in being attracted to a girl. Height is a plus but no guy is going to reject someone over it, assuming its not ridiculously short

[mb120101]

Appearance and character/personality is what guys think about

[geminisgirl]

But my boyfriend is extremely attracted to tall and quite musuclar girl. His ex was that girl. However she was extremely unattractive in every other area, which is why he quickly dump her for me.

[mb120101]

I wouldn't overthink it your appearance and personality is key

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Not everyone can be a winner! Grow stronger!

[geminisgirl]

Do I need to get stronger arms?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

If you wanna win the rematch, hell yeah! Negatives and cheat curls FTW.
https://youtu.be/u9-rKRrHTi4

[BungusHighFivePizza]

That video might be kind of boring but he is teaching real stuff about how to be a champion. If you wanna see what he can do, skip to 6:00+ plus in this video:
https://youtu.be/dhg4st5NjuY?t=361

[laraWM]

Never bet something you don't want to lose but no need to be embarrassed

[geminisgirl]

I wanted to impress my boyfriend that I could beat his ex, but I should know that she is taller, bigger and her arms are twice my size

[laraWM]

I understand, don't worry about it

[geminisgirl]

Can I dm you to show you my photos with washed/wet hair beforing haircut and my short hair after haircut?

[laraWM]

No need to see them, I'm sure that's fine 🙂

[geminisgirl]

I want you to rate them. Can you DM me please?

[Emanon25]

Yes things happen.