I have a female friend would keeps taking my picture for her so called memories, yet she wants nothing to do with me should I be concerned? ?

[HQBULLSHYT]

I am not in any kind of relationship with her, & when I asked why she says it for her memories, and she doesn't share them with anyone & she doesn't want to hang out with me

[thatshydork]

Ok I’m some what of a photographer myself, but even I find that a bit weird. I mean, I will say to my friends when we’re hanging out “oh we should take a photo together!” but we’re always doing other things like hanging out at the mall, watching movies, getting coffee, driving around, eating out, etc. and it’s not usually just them being my model unless I explicitly ask them to beforehand and even then we do other things too. If I were you, I’d just have an honest conversation with her and tell her you don’t like it and want to do other things with her that don’t involve you being her model for photos. If she respects that, cool. If she doesn’t, stop hanging out with her. If you don’t have an honest conversation with her about how it makes you uncomfortable, she’s just going to keep thinking you’re fine with it.

[HQBULLSHYT]

I have asked why, even told her this is weird, she just shrugged her shoulders, & says basically oh well don't care, they are for my memories, which I don't understand why she wants memories of me, when she has no interest in making memories with me hint hint

[thatshydork]

Then I’d say it’s time to stop hanging out with her. You’ve set the boundaries and she’s not respecting them.

[Notyouraveragecat]

Exactly!

[Notyouraveragecat]

Um maybe she's scared of rejection, she might be thinking there's no way you like her. But hey if you feel uncomfortable with her taking pictures, tell her to stop ✋️

[HQBULLSHYT]

I have asked her to hangout, & do something, & she laughed in my face

[Notyouraveragecat]

Okay yea tell her to stop taking the pictures, she's clearly invading your privacy for her own amusement!

[HQBULLSHYT]

Well it's not against the law, for her to take my picture, with her iphone

[Notyouraveragecat]

I mean if you aren't bothered by it I guess it doesn't matter. Do you want to go out with thus girl? 🤔

[coachTanthony]

Say you can have your photos if I can have a kiss. You will either get a kiss or she will get super uncomfortable. Problem solved.

[HQBULLSHYT]

Yeah and why don't we throw in sexual harassment as well

[coachTanthony]

LOL you are asking her not just attacking her... there's a difference. Don't be scared cat.

[HQBULLSHYT]

You never heard of qui quo pro

[coachTanthony]

Yeah even better. I mean if she doesn't want you in a romantic way then get a restraining order but sounds like she likes you maybe she just wants you to make a move instead of complaiing.

[Legendarylegacy13]

I don't know... that don't sound like all the information...

[In_Trance]

seems like a waste of time to me

[HQBULLSHYT]

What, can you be more specific

[Ashia1127]

Huh? That’s so weird

[HQBULLSHYT]

You are telling me, I once asked her, or you planning on killing me, & are those photos going to be like a 🏆

[dolllface]

maybe she wants to be normal friends…..

[HQBULLSHYT]

Ok, what do you mean, because we don't even hang out or do anything

[DextroShade]

Ghost her.

[HQBULLSHYT]

I have done that, & that just makes it worse, I was asked her do you have plans to kill me, why else would you need a "🏆"

[dolllface]

bro shut up no

[HQBULLSHYT]

I'm not friends on any of her social media accounts, I just find it creepy

[thatshydork]

Ok maybe don’t tell her THAT. That’s very off-putting and quite rude. “If you’re not sucking my dick, you have no place in my life” is just no. If you don’t your daughter/wife/girlfriend/mom/sister/aunt/grandma spoken to that way, don’t speak to any other lady that way. Speaking to women that way is what gives men such a bad rep. Explain to her that you want to hangout and do stuff other than being her model. If she doesn’t respect that, stop hanging out with her. If she does, then continue hanging out with her. No need to be rude to get your point across.