Girls, why would you ask a guy why he gets nervous?

[Anonymous]

Do you know that he gets nervous because he likes you?

[Anne_02]

Maybe it's out of curiosity as to why you're acting nervous when she's just being normal with you, or she's afraid that her actions are bothering you so she tries to ask why you're nervous and find out if she's made a mistake with you to make you look nervous like that...

[Asker]

Would you assume the guy likes you?

[Anne_02]

It depends on what kind of attitude you show her, how your daily personality is, how she feels about you, how sensitive she is to what is happening around her because there are some people who don't understand the signs of someone who likes you, how the interaction goes on between the two of you, and how her personality and perspective or way of thinking sees your attitude and the things that are happening. For example, if a guy not only acts nervous when I'm around but is also supported by other attitudes such as avoiding me, has been caught watching me several times, and has smiled at me several times but we rarely talk then I will wonder why you are doing all these things. I'll ask myself if you don't like me and think I'm bothering you rather than guessing that you like me. I wouldn't ask you directly why you're acting like that because we don't talk that often, for example, you're also not talkative and quiet so if I asked you why you're acting like that, the interaction would be awkward.

[Anne_02]

On the other hand, if that person is a caring person who is quick to respond when I'm in trouble and tries to help me out, and sometimes he's caught acting like he's nervous or uncomfortable when interacting with me, and we also talk to each other quite often, then I think you're really a nice person who cares about others because I don't have any feelings for you yet. But if that attitude is backed up by friends around you pairing us up or telling me that you like me, then I might think that you do like me but I'm not entirely sure about that thought because I doubt it. Or I could be a little attracted to you because I'm curious about the meaning behind your attitude that I haven't found out what it means yet but still have doubts because if it's not what I think then I'll be embarrassed by the way I think and draw conclusions about the meaning behind your attitude, and if I don't find clarity after a long time of observing then it could be that the feelings of attraction I have for you will disappear and be replaced with neutral feelings. And we also know that helping someone in trouble is part of social etiquette, so I wouldn't have much hope. In conclusion, it all depends on many things...

[Anonymous]

I would ask thinking he’s nervous around me cute because I’ll be the same way.

[Asker]

Why would you be the same?

[Opinion Owner]

anxiety because I like him, hopes he’ll like me as well etc

[Asker]

But would i have the confidence to ask him why he gets nervou?

[Asker]

You*

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I would ask him

[laraWM]

Because you care about him

[Asker]

Care in what sense?

[laraWM]

I don't know

[laraWM]

I mean we need more details to be sure

[Asker]

She is my coworker. I was eating lunch and she came near me to grab a plate. I moved back, then she said “it’s okay” in a very friendly tone. Then she asked me why i get nervous. I said “what?” and she said “no, you get nervous”. I didn't say anything after that.

A few weeks later same thing. She asked me again at lunch why i get nervous. I said “i dont know”. Then she said “do you feel nervous around girls? Have you never talked to them? Dont you have a girlfriend?” And i said “no.”

[laraWM]

Maybe she feels uncomfortable because you get nervous

[Asker]

I feel like if she was uncomfortable she wouldn't talk to me at all. she looked very relaxed to me when she talked to me

[laraWM]

Maybe she likes you and was just wondering why you're not asking her out 😂

[Asker]

Im not sure why she asked that. She asked if i have a girlfriend after asking why i get nervous.

That maybe is a sign, I don't know

[Blackcupcake]

I don’t ask people that.